60-SECOND PLAN TO RECONNECT WITH YOUR SPOUSE Part 5
BUILD MUTUAL TRUST SO YOU CAN FEEL SAFE
How much do you and your spouse trust each other?
Seriously,
Think about it.
On a scale of 1-10
10 Being you are 100% trusting of each other....
And 0 being that you don't have any trust at all...
Where do you fall?
Is that where you want to be?
Every marriage needs a strong foundation of trust...
Without it there is no safety...
And without safety...
There cannot be true connection, intimacy or closeness.
Not a fun place to be, right?
No.
Are you thinking,
“We've both hurt each other in the past. Trust has been broken. The pain is intense. How do I get my spouse to trust me again?”
Or...
“How do I trust them again?”
FOLLOW these exact steps:
STEP 1: Uncover what your spouse's emotional needs are
STEP 2: Work to meet those needs
STEP 3: Make things comfortable by showing your spouse understanding
WHAT WILL HAPPEN AS YOU CONSISTENTLY DO THESE THREE THINGS?
WILL YOUR SPOUSE FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU?
WILL THEY START TO TRUST YOU?
See, your words have little effect...
But your ACTIONS mean everything.
Start to do the three above steps...
Right now.
You'll need them as we continue to build connection...
Now,
“How do I heal from the pain, fear and the bitterness I feel?”
There's a specific process we're going to need to guide you through...
We'll introduce you to our Emotional Painkiller TM...
designed to clear negative energy...
and instantly relieve you from pain, tension and fear... in the next few days...
Without it, many people get stuck in the painful rut for years...
Not what we want for you.
So, keep your eyes out for that.