60-Second Plan to Reconnect with your Spouse Part 3

llonapadayao (25)in #marriage • 6 years ago (edited)

SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
What do all healthy marriages have in common?

Boundaries.

True Story.

A marriage without boundaries can have disastrous consequences...

As you may know now.

Boundaries are designed to protect something, not to prohibit it…

A railing on a bridge,

Divider on a freeway,

Directions on the back of medicine…

These boundaries are not set in place to hinder you, they are set in place to hedge
against danger.

Boundaries in marriage are no different.

I can hear you asking,

"SO HOW DO WE SET BOUNDARIES NOW WHEN THINGS ARE ALREADY TENSE? WHAT TYPE OF BOUNDARIES SHOULD WE SET?"

I'm so glad you asked!

Here's some boundary basics you need to understand first:

Understand how boundaries serve your relationship, how to set them, and how to avoid conflict over boundaries.
Learn how to protect yourself with boundaries without creating emotional distance.
Understand about giving space: When to give it, what it does, and how to go about it without losing progress

ACTION STEP: DECIDE WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL, WHAT IS IMPORTANT, THEN DRAW THE LINE!

-How do I do this without it blowing up in my face?

That is exactly what we will cover in the emails I'll be sending you in the next few days

We'll show you how to communicate face-to-face and really talk to each other even if your partner distances themselves.

But that you NEED TO….

For the health of your marriage…

It's time to Uncover the Root Cause of Your Marriage Problems!