Esther Perel: "There is never THE ONE"

"There is never 'The One.' There is 'A One' that you choose and with whom you decide that you want to build something. But in my opinion, there could also have been others — you just chose this one. And when you choose one, you renounce others. … Then you decide that because you've chosen that person, you turn that person into The One."

Esther Perel, the author of "Mating in Captivity" and "The State of Affairs". If you got lost in your romantic relationship, things are not going well, you still remember those great times together but you are not sure how to bring them back, go and check her. She has a lot to say.