How to be the PERFECT HUSBAND

in #marriage7 years ago

We all know that women are not the easiest of the sexes.  They can be moody and unpredictable, but at the same time, also loving and compassionate.  It's not easy to be a great husband and probably much harder to be a great wife, but a relationship is a partnership.  No one is perfect and we all have our flaws and that is what makes us unique.  The question is:

 What do we do for our better halves to make us perfect, for them?

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Don't be lazy!  She'll let you know pretty fast if you're showing any signs of laziness, she WILL! Don't get caught being lazy, trust me.  She wants a partner, not (another) child.

Compliment her, make her smile.  Even if she growls at you and she is looking at her worst, she's still the one you chose and remember: she chose you too!

Be romantic.  She knows you don't really know ho to be romantic but just a little effort will do the trick.  If everything else fails, use your Mastercard! Or ask Google.

Protect her.  She should feel safe by your side.  Not only physically but also emotionally and financially.  Don't be controlling and have all sorts of expectations that can make her feel miserable and scared.

Consider her when making decisions.  It shows that you respect her enough to involve her and that you trust her with everything.

Be there for here, especially if she needs you to.  Look for the signs because she might not even tell you.  Be her partner and help her with emotional issues too.  Be her support without taking the situation into your control.

Be a gentleman.  It never goes out of style!

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You nailed it! I'm blessed to be married to a guy who puts your rules into practice. Upvoted & Followed :)

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Thanks, glad you enjoyed it

I did thx :0)

totally agree :) happy wife, happy life...re-steemit!

For sure. Thank you!

@ghostgtr good one indeed and I guess that the ladies will love your tips including some gentlement who want to be better partners to good women.

Thanks. Yes, some men can surely treat their ladies differently.

I agree..good post

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Well done - you have obviously learned a few thing - good post

I am also blessed to have a wonderful husband, supportive, loving, take good care of the house and even adult children, he is always there when you need him. He is also grumpy at times!!

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