The violence we exert on ourselves // Do what you love, not what you expect from you!

There is much violence today in life. This is not about physical violence exerted by another person on us. It is about the violence that we apply to ourselves. This psychological violence is the responsibility that we take for ourselves, without the slightest desire for it.

Everything we do in our lives must be free of violence. We usually do this: "I have to do this, although I want to do something else altogether. I can not part with this man, because everyone will be angry with me. I can not quit this job because I need that money, I do not have to ... .. etc ... "
In order to have as much satisfaction as possible in our lives, it would be better for us to end up with people, relationships, work, objects ... that we do not like. Here is the place to choose whether to force ourselves to do what we do not want, or if we do not have an alternative to reject it, or to try to have another attitude towards it. For example - let's take a first break and then do what is necessary to stay satisfied, or that person makes me feel bad, will reject his invitation to meet.
How many people work in a place where they feel bad? How many people do what does not give them pleasure?
They turned into robots - they are spinning in a vicious circle from which they can not come out. Their life is monotonous, boring and monotonous. They have no purpose, no achievements, no satisfaction. Why do not they try to change their workplace ?! From fear, laziness or feel relaxed in the matrix?!
How many people have lived for years with a man who no longer likes. Why are they doing it? What stops them from dividing? Why do they force themselves to be deceived that they are the perfect family? Who laughs - themselves or others, but they certainly torture themselves.
Such examples also exist in other aspects of our lives. The theme is long but very important. If we sit down and think about our lives, we will understand by ourselves or whom to release. We should not carry this load on our shoulders. Life passes quickly, and after years when we reach a decent age, then we will think about how many years we have wiped out because we have not cleared the unnecessary things, things, people, feelings, and everything we have brought with us. Everything that not only weighed us, but also prevented us from going in the desired direction, which prevented us from being happy. But it will be too late to ask the question, "Now where?" Because we would have reached the end of our journey, lived an impersonal, insignificant, unhappy life lacking the joy of success, happy moments, and true love.

I'm sorry about the Google translator's inaccurate translation!
I wish you a great day!