Love relationships, why do women cheat on men and what are we doing wrong?

All relationships are different from each other, lately it has caught my attention to hear from different women why they are unfaithful to their partners, and what were the causes that motivated them. Women are complex beings and although outside they are beautiful and spectacular, inside they are often insecure and tend to have low self-esteem depending on how they are treated, and how they make them feel. A common factor that I found among the different stories that my friends related to me, is that they no longer felt loved, listened to, valued as at the beginning of the relationship, they went into the background on the part of their partners.

Eventually this type of behavior comes from relationships where a significant amount of time has already passed so that the relationship has already left its infatuation stage, which is between 2 and 3 years generally. Relationships although at first they are all fresh and full of attention, at some point they have a death or a decline in the aspect of falling in love with women on the part of men, since many women state that in their experience and treatment was not the Men, since the men felt that the couple was safe, they lost interest in paying attention to their things, details, or simple everyday things that they face in the day to day. Relationships become monotonous and within them is the lack of romanticism and communication.

For no one is it strange that at the beginning of relationships we are the men who are behind women at all times, and we show ourselves to be submissive when it comes to giving attention to the woman being courted, however after it is performed commitment, and as the relationship progresses, we tend to put aside those attentions that made us attractive to them, leaving aside the details that, although insignificant, are important for all women. We take care only to meet predestined meetings or those already scheduled, without interest to improve the quality of them, whether they are movies, dinner, home, making monotonous the moments and start falling into the everyday and boring

Generally men are in a situation of lack of attention to the couple, it is at this point that women who are still in love begin to see changes in behavior and begin to feel that something is already failing in the relationship, which already they are not valued and the stage of feeling sad or depressed begins. It is at this point that they begin to show willing to engage in conversations about those details to which a large number of men feel that the situation does not deserve to be discussed, or they try to fix it with some momentary or temporary detail that within a period of time variant time no longer has an effect, and we tend to follow the same behavior if we do not conscientize the reason for the situation discussed and the personal and reflective analysis of us men. .

It is after these situations are solved that some fights and arguments between couples appear, and each fact borders on bitterness or resentment such as leaving them planted, forgetting dates, expressing feelings, not showing details, lack of sexual intimacy among others. . This is a turning point and it is when women begin to feel vulnerable and devalued, tending to look for someone who will listen or understand them and this is where many women receive attention from other men, and tend to perform the act of infidelity. Although it is due to lack of attention or because they do not feel good, it is their partners, the women who perform the act feel guilty in most cases, since they still love their partners.

There is another reason in which women decide to commit infidelity to their partner. And one of them is the discovery of an infidelity on the part of man. In these cases some women feel that they should do it as the old saying "an eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth" for revenge.

What do we men do wrong? We neglect our partners, for having the belief that they will never be unfaithful to us or that will not happen to me. We must look for quality time to share as a couple, encourage and enrich the mutual affection and not let the relationship get cold, feeding the love that once we reached. Women tend to idealize us with blue princes at the beginning of the relationship, then we must do the task to not end up as the bad guy in the story or the prince who lost his princess and his reign. I call for an honest and personal self-assessment on the attentions concerning our partner and do the same nonsense that we did when we were dating and courting them because if she chose you for some reason we do not have to give them reasons to choose another..