Here is yet another great piece @olawalium. With the little experience I have I’ll say;

One of the laws of life is that, eventually, you’re going to take it square in the face.

No matter how you prepare yourself, no matter what you do, you’re going to get hurt. You’re going to end up with a broken heart. It may be romantic. Like your perfect lover dumping you. It doesn’t matter how it happens; all you need to know is that sometime you’re going to get hit and hard. It may only weigh a couple ounces, but it’s a two-ton weight on your heart.

But while pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Life may beat you down. You may get your heart broken. But if you know how to pull yourself back together, you can get the strength to stand right back up, broken heart and all. And be stronger than you were before.

There is one rule to healing a broken heart that’s more important than any other: GET UP!

Your heart may hurt in ways that you never knew were possible. You want nothing more than to just close yourself up in your apartment and wait until the pain goes away. But it won’t.

As unfair as it is, life is going to go on without stopping for your pain. So you have to know the state of your heart and balance things up .