7 WAYS TO FIND & ATTRACT YOUR SOULMATE
What is a soul mate? A soul mate is a person that matches your ‘being’ your ‘ideas’ in life or your ‘style’.
Your soul mate is going to make you feel comfortable with who you are, is not going to try and change you, and your soul mate is a person that you don’t want to change either. Your soul mate is someone you are happy with as things are.
- IS THERE ANY SUCH THING AS A SOUL MATE?
Yes, there are soul mates for everyone in the world. While some people are lucky to find their soul mate early on in life, others may have to search for their soul mate.
You will find that you may find your soul mate in the least likely place or in the least likely person, but you will find someone who can love you and care for you when you need them.
A soul mate is a person who you love and loves you back for no reason at all, just because you have found each other, and just because you are connecting with each other.
A soul mate is deeper than lust and sex, but a soul mate is a person who can look into your eyes, and know what you are thinking or feeling without your even saying it aloud.
When you find a soul mate, you will feel something that you have never felt before.
- HOW DO YOU SPEND YOUR TIME?
Look at where you spend your time. Do you go to work, the gym, to church, home, and to the store daily or weekly?
These are places where you can meet and talk with others, and perhaps find your soul mate. The first step in meeting your soul mate is getting to know other people in general.
The more people that you meet, the more people that you talk with, the more confident you are in life and the more appealing you will be when you meet that person who is possibly your soul mate. Think about saying hello to just two new people a day!
Just two people, anywhere that you go, this is going to give you an opportunity to strike up a conversation, and to expand your friendships.
Many soul mates are discovered from friendships. Get to know the people you work with, the people who are your neighbors, and the people that got to the same places you do in life.
- WHO ARE THE PEOPLE THAT YOU KNOW?
Find and attract your soul mate by reviewing those people you know and love already in life. As we mentioned before, many soul mates find each other through blossoming friendships.
This may or may not be your situation, but will certainly give you the opportunity to think about the people you know, and whom you may want to get to know better on a different, and deeper level.
Attract your soul mate by listening to what others in your life want, think about, and respect, and then become that person.
For example, if your friends feel that going to the soup kitchen and volunteering on a monthly basis is important, you should also join in and see what all the fuss is about.
As you join in another activity you are learning more about your friends, and you are showing more about whom you are. If your soul mate is someone who is in this circle of friends, you may get to know each other better than before, which is the first step in attracting your soul mate.
- LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF AND LISTEN TO OTHERS
Finding your soul mate is all about learning about who you are and where you want to go in life.
If you love yourself, and if you are confident, about whom you are, your soul mate, when you meet that person, is going to be attracted to those solid qualities in your life. If you are not open to meeting others, to listening, and in talking with others, you will find it difficult to attract any new friends, which limits your ability to reach a soul mate in life.
“Why don’t you do something about it if it troubles you?” I gently asked.
“That’s a great idea, Mom,” she said. “Hey, Linda,” she said as she turned to face her buddy. “Have a piece of chocolate cake.”
- RECOGNIZING YOUR SOUL MATE
How are you going to know your soul mate when you first meet him or her?
You will feel a spark, energy when the two of you talk. You will feel as if you matter when you are talking about any subject, and you will be truly interested in what the other person has to say.
While it could be just for a split second, or it could be all night long, you have to think about that special feeling and capturing it again.
Take control of your destiny and in finding your soul mate by leaning to listen to what others are saying, and to how it could possibly change your life overall.
Listening to another person teaches you a great deal about who they are and where they are heading in life.
- CHANGING YOU TO ATTRACT OTHERS IN LIFE
Find and attract your soul mate by changing those things about yourself that you don’t life the most.
For example, if you have always wanted to lose ten pounds, do it. If you have always wanted contacts, do it.
If you want to head out to the singles club and dance the night away, do it. Something you have always wanted to do can change yourself; change your confidence levels, and all while giving you the chance to meet others at the same time.
Open yourself to being who you really want to be, not someone that you think others want you to become.
- BE OPEN ABOUT YOURSELF AND HONEST WITH OTHERS
Attracting your soul mate is much easier when you are honest with yourself and with others in your life. If you are not ‘true to yourself’, being whom you want to be – then others are going to find you to be a fake person.
Tell no lies, be honest about your mistakes in life, and that you have learned from those mistakes.
As you become more comfortable with yourself, where you have been in life, and where you are going, you become more confident and easy to understand.
Your soul mate is going to find you attractive because you are honestArticle Search, open and you are willing to be up front with your feelings.
