Extreme Levels Of Love - Which One Are you On..?

LOVE - The strongest force in the world have been a mystery to the mankind, a intoxicating yet pleasureful experience we all once in our lifetime pass through..
The feeling which prevails upon every other feeling and emotion and sometimes the whole victim....

Love is a very strange feeling, we never know why, when, how... It just zings.. No human or animal in this world who can live without it. Even the most heartless person in the world begs for a little act of love from within.

We may never be able to know what love is, scientifically there is no chemical formula for that, many believes including me that love is the possession of soul.. A feeling of divine, a sensation of joy which our mind cant control..

Everybody loves somebody and it is a Universal fact.. There is someone always in your heart whom you love to a certain limit.. Well love dont have any limits but it has several stages from which every lover has to pass.. So today I will be discussing those 4 stages of love through which every lover has passed or is being passed through..

1. Affection

This is the very first of love which then takes the person to the peaks of selflessness.. We all have affection for someone or multiple people, this is absolutely natural and every great love starts from A pinch of Affection.. Somehow a person seems peculiar to you and you start taking Interest in his/her every matter.. Suddenly you become a stalker, a pursuer for that person. And soon enough that person becomes a part of your night's solitude.
Famous word "Crush" which we can describe as alternative to Affection also falls under this category..

2. Possession

This stage occurs when you started thinking about the person alot than usual, suddenly you start feeling a connection with him/her and all the things which are somehow connected to him/her...
The time when the person becomes your solitude rather than being a part of it.. You feel exotic thinking about that person and whenever he/she is around you, you start acting weird and awkward..

Most of us just make to this stage and don't have the guts to progress to next ones. Or we are afraid of the extreme circumstances we will have to face.
But there are some among us who sail through these stages and continue to rush toward securing the highest level of love..

Logically, This stage is very strange, you start fading into your love and the amount of his/her thoughts become abnormal... And lovers call these feelings "Gleams of The Heaven"..

3. Obsession

When desire become strong enough, It becomes Love..

This stage is most intoxicating of all, it not only cause the lover to perish but also the beloved one... The real reason for this stage is usually rejection or Low Self Esteem...
The beloved one also gets punished for the lover's love and sometimes he don't deserves it, but as lover thinks of his beloved as his total possession, they both perish.. and eventually deteriorate over time.

The lover that happens to reach this stage start feeling very jealous of every person his/her beloved share his feelings with.. And in this rage of jealousy not only destroy his life but the beloved life too. Somehow his beloved one burn in his raging fire too along with him..
But, if the lover learn to control over himself and dont let this stage prevail over his care and love for his beloved then the stage of selflessness starts.. The stage when the lover start accusuing him for all the faults and decides to burn alone in this intoxicating fire...

4- Selflessness (The True Love)

After being burnt in the fire of raging love the coal morphs into a diamond and love becomes divine.
The lover become selfless and all he has in him is his beloved one and his sweet little memories.
This peaceful looking person has a rampant storm of love within him. A fire so hot that he couldn;t be burnt more. A feeling so strong that does not feel anything now.

This may sound easy but only handful of people have reached this stage most of the people either suicide in the third after killing the beloved or just destroy both of their lives in the rage of obsession... But as it is said -

It is easy to die for love, the real challenge is to live for it...

All the scenarios i am describing are implementful to the person who has failed in achieving his/her love. The lucky ones who get to secure the love of their beloved ones dont get to proceed after 2nd stage...

In this Last stage of love after fighting so hard with his soul and body the lover finally reaches a point of selflessness and get fully merged in this ocean of love..Al he is and all he have is LOVE.
The lover's admires morph into the admires of the beloved....His memories are a becomes a fragment of beloved fragrance and broken pieces good memories associated with him/her...

This feeling is also called The feeling of Divine.. And these lovers leave a prominent mark of their love within this world so that their love would live forever.

Besides the true lover learns to enjoy the sensation of one sided love because that is the possession of his own, no one can take that feeling from him. And these thought transform his loneliness into solitude and his life into a living idol of love..!

But putting all that aside love by itself is a very great feeling nobody want to loose that soulful feeling even if he fail to gain the love of his/her beloved.

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