Theres A Difference
Relationships are better private nobody needs to be in you and your spouses business but you two. BUT letting people know that you two are together NO MATTER WHO IT IS and letting people know he is yours and you are his is the right thing to do. Keeping your partner a secret is a horrible thing to do. You can't be mad if guys than try to get with your girl , ITS BECAUSE NOBODY KNOWS she is YOUR GIRL. Show her off but don't let them know how good she is in every aspect. Just let them know she is yours and thats how its going to be.