confusion

relationship goals.....
if a girl loves u more than her self nd always think of urs in her dreamx nd proposes u again nd again but u dnt love her....
nd on the otherside u r in love with a girl tht u cant live without her but she dnt love u.... then tell me steemit members what will have to do...
1.. accept her love
2.. or will compel her to love u?
ur suggestions plzz