What Is Love

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love is a strong affection, feelings, attraction, admiration, tenderness and common interest you have towards one another or another person.
Love is also the object of attraction that gets u attracted to someone of gets another person attracted to you. It’s also a strong attraction that makes you want to be around your loved ones all the time.
It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animal.
We use the word love to describe a lot of things, We love food. We love a good joke and we love having a good time. Using love to describe such simple things makes the word seem a little safer. It is safe because we are not exposed. A great cup of tea cannot reject us. A song from our favorite band does not leave us feeling useless. But when we choose to share our life with another person, we inevitably make a choice to become vulnerable. Unfortunately, vulnerability leaves our defenses down and often we get hurt.
Most people don’t want to fall in love so as not to become vulnerable, because not everyone has the heart to take pain or broken heart and most people who fall in love would possibly cheat on their partner when he or she finds out or thinks the love between the two of them has reduced.
Love is an echo in the feelings of a unity existing between two persons which is founded both on likeness and contemporary feelings. Without the likeness there would be no attraction; without the challenge of the contemporary feelings there could not be the closer interweaving and the inextinguishable mutual interest which is the characteristic of all deeper relationships.
Don’t get it twisted because love is a beautiful thing and love can be classified into the following based on my own understanding.

 unconditional love
 Love at first sight
 Accidental love
 Fake love

Unconditional Love

This unconditional love is the kind of love that is rare to find nowadays because most people out here don’t need unconditional love because we all are after fake love and sex life. Unconditional love is the love you have for someone without putting him/her on condition and without looking at the persons bad side, bad behavior or attitude, such love reciprocate the love, kindness, good gesture among partners. This kind of love doesn’t expose each other’s secret to third party.

      Love at first sight  

Love at first sight is the kind of love that Is kind of common among youths of nowadays. This kind of love occurs when a guy sets eyes on a lady for the first time and the two of you feel the connection and affection and you are both in love. Although most people don’t believe in love at first sight because they think you need to know your partner very well before you can ask such person out, but in my own opinion I believe in that love based on the kind of connection and urge I feel anytime I have feelings for being the person I saw for the first time.

    Accidental love

Accidental love can happen anywhere and anytime be it at our work place, houses, garden, in the bus and so on. Accidental love happen in a way that even both partners didn’t plan for and this can also be connected to love at first sight because both partners may not have seen each other before, or they might know each other but either the man is scared to let the woman know about his feelings for her. For example a lady was listening to music as she was walking while a guy also was coming but he didn’t look at her front and they both clash and by the time they got up, they were looking at each other eye to eye and before u know it, they are already in love and that was how their love started.

   Fake love

This is the type of love that is very common in this our era because everybody are just dating for dating sake all in the name of them not ready to be committed to only one person. This is because they don’t want to get married and then they will have like six or seven babes outside and they will be lieing to have just only one girlfriend. Fake love is the kind of love that exists when people are not in love in someone but be claiming to love such person.

Don't get it twisted because love is a beautiful thing.

To be in love is a good thing if you are in love with the rightful partner.

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