Do you get extremely angry at a person you love the most?

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Love comes with caring and understanding each other. We expect more from a person who we love most. That's the reason behind, sometimes we get so angry to the loved one. Which I think is one of the human nature and very normal.

I am not a exceptional one. My loved one also sometime makes me angry. Their behaviour or certain work made me angry like hell and I used to scream at them.

The top two who have to go through my anger is my mother and my husband.  My mother used to be very protective and over active to do all the work in one hand. Which makes me angry and I could not resist myself but argue with her with screaming. 

And my husband's case is total opposite. If I say him something, he response it very lately or do the work lately. Most of the time this thing made me angry.  And he is sort of messy and put anything anywhere and don't find it later. That's the other reason. Sometimes I also said that I would not live with you longer or leave you.

After we get through the phase of anger, when we all calm down then we get back everything normal.

We should control our anger, so that it would not force to talk certain words which would make a permanent wound to others heart. And the other person should also know the technique how to calm the anger and make love.

Love can heal all the wound. Sometimes it's nearly impossible to us to get angry to some people who is doing very wrong to us. We sometime accept that or protest it other way. But when its come to the loved we chose to show our anger. Because we need more better care, more attention and more love from them. That's what forces us to do such thing. 

If we start to take care of each other's emotions more after the situation then I think it will make everything normal and make our life easy.