What is the nicest way to break up with someone?

in #love6 years ago (edited)

There is nothing wrong in break-up, I believe. If two people have miss-understanding for long, they are failing to make it work and feel less love for each other, then it's better to break up the relation.

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But break up hurts both parties for sure. So the easy way would be- sit with the person and tell him/her what is going on inside you. What you are feeling and why you want to go. If the other person is not ready to let go, but you want it desperately, then tell the person why it is necessary.

May be there would come many arguments or fight, but this is the better way I think than suddenly stop communicating each other. But before you go for a talk, prepare yourself, hold your emotions and make logics to show.

Try not to be mad at each other, show respect and show value for the past feelings. This will help the other person the reasons of break up. May be this takes few days but will work for sure, when the other one will understand there is nothing left to do.

Tell the truth, no hide no future promises. That's the nicest way I think. It will keep each other's mental peace and will help to get out from the emotional bonding in a much better way.

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Sometimes a break up is needed, but also sometimes the other person don't want to hear the truth, and its hard to explain yourself! Upvoted and resteemed, for your support!

This is very true that sometimes the other person is not ready to listen or let go. But keeping distance or not communicating makes thing worse, I believe. It's better to have a talk and break up in a friendly way.
Thanks for your understanding.
Have a nice day.

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