I AM IN LOVE

I AM IN LOVE

1. What Love is not and what is and the ingredients that make love thrive.
    WHAT LOVE IS NOT
    When you do don’t known the originator of LOVE- GOD.
    When you did not check the love with God’s will-{word}.
    When you don’t hear from God.
    When your fellowship with God is affected.
    When the so call love made you to disobey God
    When your spiritual life suffers.
    When there is no forgiveness in his /her dictionary.
    When your wishes are ahead of your senses.
    When you beg to be loved
    When you are afraid. {No fear in perfect love}.
    When your peace is lost
    When you cohabit
    When you beg to have sex with someone.
    When you beg people to have sex with you.
    When he / she only want you in bed.
    When you disobeyed your parent when giving you godly advice.
    When sex is involved without marriage.
    When you are only ready for wedding and sex.
    When all he /she do is pecking, necking, kissing, founding, hugging, and caressing.
    When he/she can fight anybody because of you even when you are wrong.
    When he/she shout at you or disgrace you publicly or privately.
    When you can afford to steal your parents money because of him/her.
    When you can afford to tell lies because of him/her.
    When you can beat your parents, friends, siblings, relations because of him/her.
    When he /she always aim at win an argument
    When there is no I am sorry in his/ her dictionary
    When there is no thank you in his/ her dictionary
    When there is no please in his/ her dictionary
    When there only my command is my wish.
    When she/he can afford to beat you
    When she/he can afford to insult you
    When he/she does not love his/her siblings, parents, and your sibling and parents.
    When he/she does not want to see anybody around you.
    When he/she is proud.
    When he/she is arrogant and stubborn.
    When he/she does not work to earn a living
    When he/she is too stingy.
    When she has no respect for any other male except you.
    When she has no respect for any other parent except your.
    When he does not respect for your siblings and elderly ones.
    When you mean nothing to him/her.
    When you feel you are not saved be with him/her.
    When you just managing him/her.
    When you are forcing yourself on him/her.
    When your mind does not agree with him/her.
    When you find it difficult to love him/her.
    When you use your money and material to buy love
    When he/she hardly appreciate your love
    When he/she always trying to avoid you, no visitation, no call.
    When he/she does not want to be introduced to your parents.
    When he/she is not happy seeing you.
    When he/she can afford to abuse and curse you.
    When your become blind, not sure where the love is leading to.
    When one sense is lost because of love
    When you cannot do without him/her.
    When one emotion cannot be controlled.
    When you cannot correct him/her when he/she is doing wrong things.
    When he/she does not agree together under the umbrella of God.

WHAT LOVE IS
L= Living
O= Out
V=Visual
E= Expression
• “Beloved, Let us LOVE one another, for LOVE is from God. Whoever loves is born of God, and knows God.
Anyone who does not LOVE does not know God.
Because God is LOVE”. {1 John 4:7-8}
• There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. {1 John 4:18}
• For God so LOVE the world, that He gave His Only Begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life. {John 3:16}
YOU ARE TRULY IN LOVE WHEN:
 You are very sure God is leading you.
 You hear God speak to you clearly about it.
 God says go ahead
 You are ready to obey God instruction
 You are ready to hear what God says.
 You are ready to back out if God says NO, even when it is a day to your wedding ceremony.
 You seek godly counsel often.
 He/she must agree together under the umbrella of God.
 You are not intoxicated with the said love.
 You have heard God speak before now not just on this matter of marriage.
 Step on each other’s toes, forgive and forget.
 You are ready to obey godly advice given by your parents
 You are not blind to the shortcomings of your lover.
 He/she is not demanding for sex before marriage.
 You have peace of mind.
 You are not afraid of anything about it.
 You feel comfortable with him/her.
 You do not Cohabit
 You have control over your emotion
 You can boldly take off his /hands when caressed around your hair, breast, belt, back, thigh or any other sensitive area without being rude.
 You both fear God.
 Zip is always zipped up, belt tightened, bra fastened when you are with each other.
 All you feel is to hold each other’s hand when you are with each other.
 This love has not gotten into your head to make you misbehave.
 Respect for each other.

 You don’t beg to be loved
 He didn’t beg for sex.
 She didn’t ask you to make love with her.
 He did not asking you to prove your love
 He did not ready to test you in order to find out how active you are.
 He is not ready to test your virginity
 You believe and trust him/her.
 He accepts you for who you are.
 You can resolve each other’s differences amicably
 You have nothing to hide from each other.
 Nothing frightens you about your relationship.
 You are not guilty about anything in your relationship.
 You are not filling ashamed about you relationship.
 You are bold enough to introduce your spouse to your relatives and friends.
 When he is not ready to fight anybody because of you- Brother.
 When is not ready to keep malice and abuse anybody because of you –Sister.
 Mutual for each others in public and in private.
 Mutual honours for each others in public and in private.
 He does not loving you out of sympathy
 He does not feel is helping you by loving you.
 You are both committed to each other.
 Have time to pray and fast together.
 She is ready to be submissive.
 He is ready to be influenced.
 You do reveal each other’s secret publicly
 He/ she stands to be corrected.
 You are free to ask each other question.
 You do not abuse or curse each other’s parents.
 You have respect for each other’s siblings.
 You are sure of each other’s integrity.
 You are ready to grow together
 You have respect for everybody.
 She has respect for everyone.
 He proposes and you consent.
 He/she is ready for wedding and marriage.
 You are both sure of each other’s confession and belief in the Lord.
 He/she is ready and can gladly says please
 He/she is ready and can gladly says I am sorry
 He/she is ready and can joyfully say thank you.
 He/she must agree together under the umbrella of God.
So when we know the originator of LOVE and who is LOVE - {GOD} and give the LOVE the attention it deserves the whole world will be a wonderful place to live in