THE COMMITMENT THAT YOU DESERVE

in #love6 years ago

Why He won't commit but still won't leave you alone
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Personally I don't think it's a problem if a guy that doesn't want to commit as long as he rolls with single women who also doesn't want to commit, I think its a problem when guys who doesn't want to commit seek out a woman or is persistent with a woman he knows wants to be committed in a Relationship.

Most women reading this post the one's who wants long term relationship connect with at least one dude who won't stop calling, texting, trying to hang out, link up and converse knowing he doesn't want same relationship that she wants or at least not with her.

Now the misconception about men in general is that they come in Good and Bad, the good guy has everything you need personality wise, character wise, relationship goals bad guys don't. But in reality you are more likely to run into a guy whose decent he's good to he's Mom, he's involved in the community, he's funny, relatable, cool to talk to but he's not ready for commitment or doesn't want same relationship that you want. Too many times women will allow a man stay in there presence longer than he should just to find out at the dead end of he's not ready for commitment.

So let me make this crystal clear good or bad men are prone to cherry pick if given the opportunity. What this means is if they can have the part of you that they like, the conversation, the friendship, the emotional support, mental support, the sex if that's what you are giving whatever it is that keeps him coming back, if they can have that without having to do with your dating preference, your relationship goals, the monogamy they would take it but that doesn't mean that the man is a bad man. Go find any good person that you know that is massively successful they would tell you they would have gladly accept the success without all the headache that comes with it, the haters, all the people trying to sabotage their success but life doesn't work like that. You Have to Accept The Good With The Bad the full package

For women ready this that loves ith you whole heart, you are trust worthy, loyal, domestic and even bring home the bread am sure it would be nice to have that without your dating pool. But there are less guys qualified to be your match so you have to treat your self like success let them accept the good and bad let him accept the full package.

know your worth and stop giving discount
If you allow a guy to pick from you what he wants you in turn is going to accept he's picking terms of what you can take, which means one component of him he's friendship, communication without he's commitment or loyalty that you deserve.
If you continue to entertain these guys that do want what you want u stand a zero percent chance of getting the love that you deserve.

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👄💋Princess Vanessa

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This is lovely. Although i feel this post shouldn't have been one-sided. As not all ladies are into commitment vis-a- vis.
Commitment goes a long way in every relationship, it's way deeper than just saying ' I love you', and it's something that has to be mutual.

My last post justifies guys

Weldone 👍

Thanks for you're review

You're welcome 😘

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