Marriage frank talk series #3

In series #2, we concluded that someone who shares common purpose should be considered in other to have a happy home.

We want to look at another very important factor to be considered in order to know if he/she is the one.
Many singles wish they really know the kind of person they are going out with, so as to avoid mistakes in marriage. Though you might not fully know him/her but here is another litmus test;

Agreement

It sounds simple but if you explore the wisdom it offers, you will avoid a life mistake.
That person you are dating, do you really agree on many things?

It is practically impossible for two of you to agree on everything, but if you don't agree on many things, especially on vital issues of life, that union might end up in disarray.

What is your guy's take on religion? Do you know her stand as touching sexual orientation? Would he like to marry in the family house and you are not comfortable staying with family members?

Do you have issues with smoking and your guy cannot do without sticks in a day? These and many more are issues to be considered if you really agree on many of them.
If not, and you believe he/she will change along the line, you are already writing your divorce letter.
It is really a frank talk because we have to tell ourselves the truth, but at the end of the day, it will bring about happy and enviable homes which is many single's dream
We shall continue from there next time, you can read up other series on my wall.
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