Love and be loved
There is no love without a reason in the world, let alone hatred without a reason. The origin of love is connected by blood, a passionate companion. The root cause of hatred is shameless possession and desire.
All of us do our best to be kind to others, and all of us trust each other unreservedly, whether it's friendship or love.
But when harm comes, we know who is real, who is fake, who sees you as a treasure, and who sees you as a joke. Therefore, not all kindness will bear sweet fruits. We also have to pay for the love we paid, which is misunderstood.
Whenever you stand wholeheartedly from the other side's point of view, you care about him more than himself, but you can't get the other side's understanding and comfort. You can only hide all your dissatisfaction in your heart. Being loved is far more luxurious than giving love. No one can use a balance to find the perfect balance! Therefore, we can only choose whether to continue to be a good person who is not recognized with our heart of inclusiveness.
You always think about the feelings of others everywhere, let others be everywhere, and live a prudent life looking at their faces. You will take care of others, but no one will take care of you. Why not be truly "selfish" once, and don't be so careful to treat yourself well. This is the ability to set sail again, care about others, and love others!
There will always be things that go against one's will in life, and will inevitably be wronged. But living in the emotions of others is not life, but self-abuse. In the dead of night, people lick the wound, not only the pain of the wound, but also the wound in my heart that needs to be healed and repaired!
Life is real, and you can get the same response from others without having to pay any price.
Sometimes, you obviously don’t have to feel wronged.
Don't be embarrassed for others.
Sometimes, you can obviously feel at ease,
But in order to take care of others, I will lose myself.
Sometimes, you will suddenly find that
The deep feelings I used to believe,
Not worth mentioning among others.
Sometimes, you accidentally discover,
Your sincerity is just the laughing stock of others' boring pastime.
This series of troubles should not arise. It is your soft heart that teaches others to "make a difference."
How many people know how to cherish your sincere consideration of others? Perhaps after being hurt, you can learn that not everyone should be treated sincerely.
You will cry, feel pain, embarrassment and helplessness. You want others to remember you well, but in the hearts of others, you don't care at all.
Those who you cannot bear to hurt will hurt you forever. Those who you do not want to embarrass you will never spare no effort to embarrass you. The human mind grows in the flesh, but your kindness never allows others to be friendly.
There has never been a feeling of sympathy in this world, let alone compare the heart with the heart. Instead of taking care of others and leaving yourself scarred, it is better to stick to yourself and live a relaxed life.
We do not need to regret any relationship, as long as we maintain a calm heart, we can move forward better. No matter who pleases, it is not as effective as pleasing yourself.
People get along with others with a sincere heart. If the heart is no longer sincere, then the feelings will be cold. Love can be given selflessly, at least we know where it is going. To be loved cannot be exchanged for pain and tears. To be loved is your true value. It is not influenced by blood or affection, just because you are worth it!