LOVE ! Do we really know what it means.
You know , what is the most used for four lettered word?
Do you know??
The most used for four lettered word is LOVE.L,O,V,E. are the most beautiful four letters in the world. The need of everyone is love & to be loved.
Everyone need someone for love. Also we all have a wish that someone would love us. There is no meaning to life without love. When a baby loose his mother at birth. After that all of his lifetime he is hunting that love with an emotional anger in his soul to find out what is the love of mother is!!
There are many in the world who haven’t seen it what that love is who to strive for that love, striving for that emotion.
You know , there’s a guy in Korea who got married to a pillow officially it’s called a Dakimakura. That guy officially got married to a pillow in the Cristian church. He carries around that pillow with a face on this pillow And tell everyone meet my wife.
One lady got married to the Eiffel Tower . She’s called mrs. Eiffel .
One girl got married to a rollercoaster.
I’m probably showing you extreme examples. Isn’t it? But what is it saying the need for love, emotional fulfillment is so strong that when you don’t get through from human being . We want to relate to animals Than we don’t even get through animals we want to relate things. What is it all going to show , “We all need that love “.
When we fail to do something , we feel frustrated. Our parents comes to us & tell us . Don’t worry we will fix it. Do you see it’s a feelings , a connection which don’t need any wire , any network tower. They just get it , that their little child is in trouble.
Do you know what’s this connection is? It’s love ,affair. We all Need to be loved and to expressed that love which is the need for the soul.
But sometimes No love of this world will satisfy us . Do you know why?
Because Love of this world has two problems. The love of this world is ridden with expectations & frustrations .
- People love us what they expect us to be , not who we are.
They like us & they make their relationships based on whether we fulfill their expectations.
- Why do we want have power & control it. It is nothing but the frustrated desire for love. Why do we want control cause we don’t get love so we need something from somewhere to suck that love.
I am not saying all relationships are like that , if there is a relationship which is selfless & there is no expectation, then time takes one or the other way.
Just think can we afford to wake up with a regret tomorrow ?
Can we afford to carry any grudges with our hearts?
Can we afford to go around with some negative feelings for people in our heart.?
When that person will not be with you anymore , you will not even get a chance to apologies & you will carry it all your life .
And therefore in the relationships of this world, sometimes just people disappoint us for who they are and sometimes, time disappoints by taking one away, and, who will go first we don’t know.
During marriage celebration , a 65 years old lady would nudge her 25 year old nephew and say ,”son you are the next”. And young people don’t like to be reminded,” you are next for marriage!” Nephew get frustrated, as she would nudge him at every marriage, and say,” you the next!” Later someone died in the family and all went for funeral and both were standing next to each other and nephew nudge aunt and says, ”you are next!”
Once a great saint said,
”When you experience love of God in your heart that love of God manifests as compassion and concern for people of this world!”
People are thirsty, yearning for that love, down in their lives, depressed, negative, lonely. They need hope , people need hope and Love is the hope . Selfless love that comes from our heart is the hope for this world.
