HIS & HER RESPONSIBILITIES
His job is to prove he's trustworthy, safe and stable. His job is to show you how he reacts to stress and pressure. It's his job to prove he can 'handle' a women like you without yelling, fighting or running away.
It's his job to hold space for you so you can allow your emotions to move through you. It's his job to hold you, allow you to lean on him and gather strength from his power. It's his job to be centred, focused, and confident. It's his job to be purposeful, stand up in front of the world and claim what he's here to do.
It's not a man's responsibility to break down our walls or prove he's not like the men before him. It's not a man's responsibility to understand and unwind our pain and fear. It's not a man's responsibility to love a broken or battered version of us and take on our past issues.
It's not his responsibly to fix us, to love our broken hearts or put the pieces back together again. We need to take care of our hearts and our history ourselves.
It's when we've taken care of our own responsibilities that we attract the reflection of what we most want to believe we deserve.
Taking care of my responsibilities is what allowed me to attract a man who takes care of his own.