Love and Marriage

ONE OF THE WISEST MARRIAGE DE

She's a kind of girl who wouldn't visit a guy at home during relationships. But, after the family introductions were done and as wedding preparations began. She felt the need as she was also advised, to begin visiting the man once in a while in his house.

Wedding invitations had gone out far and near. You know the kind of wedding ceremony the Yoruba's usually do, and the great preparations that go into such a special occasion as a wedding? Families have taken Aso Ebi in different colours. Many have bought the clothes from everywhere. All things had been set. Everyone was just awaiting the arrival of the fixed date.

Then, something happened. The young woman made a discovery. This man had been previously married to four different women who had left him, and had had numerous children that were not as much revealed to her. With her personal experience about the guy during her visits, she discovered she would be going into an untold bondage if she marries this guy.

Well, any young woman would have considered her age and the fact that much have gone into planning this ceremony, and just go ahead with such wedding, trying to avoid some shame. But, not this one. She called off the wedding. She would rather face the shame of cancellation than bring herself into an everlasting bondage through marriage.

That's one of the wisest decisions a young woman has ever made in a relationship. It is never too late to end any form of relationship once you discover that your happiness is not guaranteed when it turns into marriage, even if your wedding is just a few hours away. Don't think of what people would say, rather think of how your future would be.

Your life and future, your personal happiness, is more important than people's opinions. Let them say what they like. But make sure your decision for marriage is a one that would lead you into happiness and not sorrow, hissing, weeping and regret tomorrow, or in the far future.

Her wedding was scheduled for this Saturday, and she made the decision yesterday, just six days to go. Her elder sister just got married not too long. And, that wedding was an Heaven on Earth. It was glorious beyond description. So, nothing less was expected of hers, the second person to be married within the family.

She's spent years learning her trade well. She's stayed focused and strong, without spoiling herself with men. She's been working on her career and trying to be the best she can be. But she's also had had a long time expectation, she wanted to get married. She's 29, and now she met a lawyer. Not just a lawyer, but also a seemingly well to do man. She fell in love, or should I say entered into love.

You might have made a MISTAKE by fixing a wedding with someone, don't complete the mistake by marrying him or her if you newly discover something is wrong. Your life is more important than the gathering of people to eat rice and drink malts.

I remember a young lady telling me few days ago after going through one of our training, that had she read my teachings earlier she would have made a better decision. She told me her traditional marriage was coming up soon. She missed the appointment I gave her and we're yet to talk about it. What she never knew was this: It Is NEVER Too Late.

But, you know, the decision is hers to make, not mine. And I'm not the one who would tell her to make it, No. The Training Would, the Lectures Could, Her Thinking Should. People have to make their own decisions by themselves in life. And, I know she too would read this message.

In this month of May 2018, a young lawyer had killed her husband who was also a lawyer. Their marriage is just few years old. Google it and read the story. Don't Become the Next Victim of a Bad Marriage. Think Well...CHOOSE RIGHT

Help people to have a Happy and Successful Marriage by TRAINING the Singles on HOW to CHOOSE the RIGHT LIFE PARTNERS and the Marrieds on HOW to MAKE THEIR SPOUSES HAPPIER. There are WRONG life partners, just as there are RIGHT ones too. And, there's something you'll do that'll make that marriage of yours work better.