We must stop love the bad guy!

I reflected yesterday, rereading "Pride and prejudice", despite not three of my favorites and do not deny it, I was waiting for the dentist and he has three classics on the cross on the shelf, I chose that.

Arriving at the chapter of the party where Darcy and Elizabeth meet.

And while I was reading to myself, I thought, "How unkind is this Mr. Darcy?"

And I thought of the various Mr. of whom women fall in love: Mr. Darcy, Mr. Big, Mr. Grey.

And we are sincere, there is not one nice of them all.

Mr Darcy is gruff, arrogant and when he sees Elizabeth practically defines her as a dog, the only thing he deserves is a kick in the shins. But so much does love change it?

Mr Big, idem, is untrustworthy, womanizer, he continually plays with the pull and play mental games with the poor Carrie, he abandon her on the altar and the poor girl forgive him , just because he prepared a mega shoes room.

We do not talk about Mr. Grey, a psychopathic guy saved right from the fact that he is very rich, the only note that distinguishes him from a criminal, lonely, control freak, nasty and fussy could love him just like a virgin who does not understand if she loves him more than his helicopter . Even boring with his tormented past, even less so Mr. Grey, the ugly past is not an excuse to become a hateful character.

"Eat" and other orders as if Anastasia was a pet dog, if he used to say to me "Eat" I was already pulling the sandwich on his empty head!

And these women run after them and fall in love with these unpleasant, bad, rude, gruffing bumps that do not respect them a minimum.
But rich eh.
At least some merit let's find out from them ...

Obviously their love changes the bad guys that with them gradually melt .. So it seems. I have my doubts.

But for me it remains a mystery, because media, literature, film and the like want to make a good guy look like a man who is not beautiful? Good and damned, too. Either you're beautiful or you're damned and the damned have nothing beautiful.

They should exalt qualities such as kindness, gentleness and respect in a man not as ass**** e.

They convey an incorrect message.

The first that "Bad is beautiful" and instead NO.
NO and I write it intentionally uppercase, a man who treats a girl badly is not beautiful, an offensive man is not beautiful, an unreliable man is not beautiful, a man who wants to decide by thread and by sign what you must or do not do is not beautiful .

Love will change these individuals, another nonsense, silly ones and silly remain and women should not be heroines ready to sacrifice themselves with selflessness to these characters who deserve only a good kick in the back.

Grumpy, solitary, that does not pay attention as merits. They are not merits, they are defects. How to say "Oh how beautiful is that nasty one?"

Insistent like lovers, being insistent do not means they love you it means that they do not respect the decision of the protagonist, a wise one , to never see them again. Insist means stalking not love.

Yet the ill-fated female readers and spectators bask on these unrepeatable characters without realizing that meeting someone like this in real life would be a nightmare and would cost them a big liver, a lot of trouble, a divorce and lots of quarrels.

We are serious, you imagine a Mr Geay to do the shopping with children or who gets angry like a monkey because you want to put a pareo to the sea and not the BDSM role play game? Maybe it will break yournormal habits and force you into the gym for six hours a day.
We are serious it would not be a fable.

And the others, Mr. big just check a young girl would leave there for the fiftieth time and you would have to chase after feeling old and ugly and spending more in psychologist than shoes.

And Darcy, all day with one with that kind of attitude? Get yourself a nice stereo and xanax or you will not survive him.

But a kind and quiet boy , no?

One who is solar, cheerful, kind, respectful, who does not intend to impose everything on you, who treats you gracefully, who does not make emotional games, who does not run away every three for two moments , who is not a dominant psychopath but a normal boy who plays at the playstation and has a secret passion for bacon and eggs ?
No that no that does not make it pass as attractive, the normal guy I mean not the thread of bacon.

We must rebel against these bad guys and stop loving them, they do not deserve it.

Mr Darcy, Mr Gray, Mr Big but also NO.

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