I finally understood what true love meant

nirgf (57)in #love • 7 years ago (edited)

At the age of 41 I finally understood what love is.

What is the difference between horniness and love, why do not most men understand women, and where is the real orgasm?

Hint - not in the bedroom.

20 points for true love

Only at the age of 41 did I find the 20 true signs of love.
This happened to me this week, when I was sitting on a romantic schnitzel dinner with the wife and children. Ready?

Horniness is not love. Thus, all men in love until the age of about 30 do not correctly define their condition.
If you think you understand women, you are most likely wrong.
You do not understand anything about women until you see them in the delivery room.
It was only there that I realized their true strength, size and beauty.
Precious gifts, fireworks, free dreams and marriage proposals at the pole do not teach anything about love.
They are usually made for an audience and a show, or to complete a deficit with the attention of one or more of the partners.
The expressions of love that most women seek in men are superficial and highly technical.
I'm talking about "give me a hand," "tell me you love me", "let's sleep curled up," and so on.
Anyone can do it and even automate, and it still does not mean he really likes or appreciates you.
Never ask love and tell no one how to love you, because it will be forced love and not true love.
Communication between spouses is more important than orgasm.
Want to know if you really love someone?
Imagine winning the lottery, and that you can now acquire the love of every woman in the world.
Would you now want someone else or would you rather use the money for your current family?
If a man does not make the world to get home as soon as possible, struggling to prepare food for his children and to please them and his wife in any way, a sign that he is not really good at home.
Patience is the secret of a relationship, especially in a relationship of later ages.
After both partners have accumulated a career and experience of life, it is the synchronization of thousands of gear wheels, the zigzag.
If you want to go out but your partner prefers to stay with you at home, do not think he is "heavy".
Instead, you'll understand that it's a good sign, because what's most fun for him is to be with you at home.
With you, and not with anyone else.
Calculators who do what at home or who puts more money?
That's not a good sign.
When lovers do not think about anything, just as a truly believing Jew does not look at the clock in the synagogue.
If your relationship has a sense of humor, that's a good sign.
This is stage two in healthy communication, and it also radiates to children.
Do not be impressed if someone tells you that he wants you to be the mother of his children.
Most men say this at a stage in their lives where, unfortunately, they still do not understand anything about raising children.
If you say sentences like "Children are the glue" or "I stay with her just because of the kids" - do a favor and look for another woman.
Priorities are the most important measure of love.
For instance, if you agree to give up on an evening with friends just because she is tired, and you want to do everything to make her time for rest - you really love her, and friends - prioritize this measure of love, not gold rings.
Love is scrutinized in really difficult times.
Enjoy a movie together, eat a good meal, go for a walk or indulge in a spa - it's great, but it does not mean anything about your love.
Ask yourself if you really appreciate her.
I, for example, feel that I admire my wife for a lot of things, and over the years it's only getting stronger.
Nothing in the relationship is self-evident.
They were polite to each other, and not just waiters at the cafe.
Things that are made of the heart are more important than money.
If your partner notices that once, at some end of a sentence, you said that you were very interested in cooking and she enrolled you in a workshop that costs $30 by surprise, it's worth more than any diamond.
Children is the peak of love, it is the Everest of emotions.
If you feel that you make them happy, that you have the right to live with them and give them a warm home, food, love and security, and love each other, you do not need more than that in life.