Every girl has an ideal standards for her man. But as cliche says, when "true love strikes, definitely it'll hit you hard, leaving your standards generously aimless.

To my curiosity, i asked few of my girl friends both in college and in work to decode their standard qualities of their ideal man so that I may know their common denominator when it comes to their lads. And to my surprise, I got them saying...

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Choose a man that will put you closer to God. He will not be the perfect man but he will be the one you'll be with for the rest of your life because he has God in his life.

• Anabelle

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Choose a man that will court not only you but also your family as well. A man who is brave enough to introduce himself to your family.

• Ricka Dawn

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Choose a man who is consistent from the beginning...

• Faye Anne

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The man who has a dream in life, a man who is responsible enough, a man who is not only good in words and in actions, a man who will not give temporary happiness, a man who will not leave you hanging, a man who will pursue his girl, and a man who protects the hearts of his girl is sometimes a man who get hurt with there partner.

• Darylle

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In short, choose a Godly man. A man who values you because he knows your identity with our Heavenly Father. A man who knows your worth and how precious you are. A man who is scared of hurting you because he is fully aware that it is not pleasing in our God's eyes.

• Gladys

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Choose a man who makes you first as his Queen and, is willing to be not your King but your Knight-in-shining armour.

-Abby

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Choose a man who's first love is God and will put you closer into Him 'coz I believe that God must be the center in every relationship. Who will accept your scars,flaws and weaknesses. Who will choose your inner beauty and soul rather than your external beauty, [before you say "Yes".]

• Faith

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Kaung i love you eventhough you have a imperfections , flaws, and unwanted attitude but for me you’re the best man that God gave me in my life. Actually I didn’t choose you I just love you no matter what you are it’s you and will always you so I not only love you but also accept your weak points and will still love you forever.

• Minette

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A man who can give you unexplainable happiness. A man who's not afraid to make some stupid silly things just to make his girl happy.

• Amper

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Choose a man who chases God, loves God, and puts God before you. He may not be perfect but he will always be there just like how God has been there for you. Because a man that loves and chases God knows how God loves. Full of forgiveness, understanding, care, and love. Be with a man who has these qualities and you'll know he is the one God has entrusted you to.

• Veramae Louise

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Its easy to say than done. Sometimes the one who posses those traits might not the one can make you happy. How can you settle and trust your life to the man that you know can't make you happy? You can't choose. Love just come unexpectedly, but if it comes its for you to decide weather this man deserves your love or not.

• Monette

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A man with a good soul and who makes you laugh, you are the only one in his heart. He cry when you cry and laugh when you laugh and share the sorrow you bear and he would not get tired seeing you everyday. He put you in a pedestal like his Queen of his heart and soul. Each moment his with you is special. He would not take you for granted. He would declare to the world how much he loves you in words and in action.

• Susan

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With this social experiment done, I have really proven that girls are really girls when choosing their man. They can be practical or ideal about it, but one thing is for sure, their love to their partner is one of a kind true and genuine. Honestly, I really had great time doing this since this is my first time doing this kind. Some of them even joke at me that maybe I'm interested of them for asing such question. But anyway, this is really something new to me that i will never forget of.

Shalom Everyone! If you also happen to have your preferences of your ideal man or woman, feel free to share it at the comment section and let's steem around about it.

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