Sex is not love
A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have sex with a female friend
and yet, not love her.
Sex makes men act as if they are in love.
The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other
expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in
the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside
them and conclude that this is the art of true love. Sex is not an act of
commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and
start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that
comes from sex dies in minutes.
It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A
man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for
sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.
Sex drives men to do what seems like the
impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird.
Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary.
People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most
young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many
girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in
the future but they are just living for
fun and that is all. Students are now living
together like husbands and wives, and our
society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become
when they leave school?
This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building
graduates.
Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear
everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any
man
that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money
and she would respond to him.
The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex
symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today is changing
the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well within
life? They have sold their souls out
to sex. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is
their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up
economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they come
to their true senses?
Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:
For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future
directions, stay positive.
My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and its
start today.