GUIDE FOR THE RIGHT DATE THAT LEAD TO LIFE TIME. .

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What makes marriage pleasant is not wealth but the abundance of happiness. Once there is happiness every other thing will be fun. Understanding of the ingredients of happiness in marriage. My dear reader, Love is not only in the bed but in the heart. Understand the role and purpose of someone in your life, learn how to leave the table where love is no longer served, do not accept anybody because "I MUST MARRY" or "I AM TIRED OF STAYING IN MY FATHER'S HOUSE/BACHELOR" or "MY FRIENDS ARE ALL MARRIED"

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Sex becomes an issue when purpose is misunderstood. When discussing with ur wife or husband to be, listen to him/her, know what he/she wants if he is the type that talks about sex all the time. Sit down and talk about it. Be bold to ask him/her one or two questions because you are friends. WHAT IF I AM ON MY MENSES, HOW WILL YOU COPE WITH SEX? WHAT IF I DON'T HAVE STRENGTH OR I AM NOT IN THE MOOD FOR SEX, WHAT WILL YOU DO?. This is called MATURITY.

Just yesterday I overheard a couple fighting and abusing themselves. The husband was accusing the wife and calling her all sorts of names. He said to his wife "YOU HAVE DONE MANY ABORTIONS AND REMOVED YOUR WOMB THAT'S WHY YOU HAVE NOT CONCEIVED FOR THE PAST 12 YEARS OF MARRIAGE". The wife could not help it, but to cry aloud asking the husband "AM I THE GIVER OF CHILD? WHEN DID I ABORT OR REMOVE MY WOMB"? With tears in her eyes. Now when you take a look at this marriage, he married because of children and was not ready to accept what ever that comes out of the marriage.

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My dear beautiful creature, date a partner who can hear you and listen to you, and never involve third party in your affairs unless when ABSOLUTELY needed. Be mindful of any partner who finds it so difficult to say "I THRUST YOU" and "I'M SORRY". Remember, it is better you receive I trust you than getting I love you all the time, though both are pertinent and act as catalyst to the marriage; But it is 99.9% possible to love who you trust but sometimes it is not possible to trust who you love. Some people see you as an option. Date someone with sense of responsibility not sense of horny because such person will date for fun not marriage. Quit any relationship that involves bullying and fighting. Misunderstanding is part of marriage but nobody prays for that. All that is needed is to having the ability to resolve it amicably; not forgetting that both came from different backgrounds. Don't think once you get married he/she will change. My dear marriage does not change such attitude always. Date one with sense of readiness, because such person will not celebrate relationship rather marriage. To get married to you is one of the things he wants. Do not allow any relationship to keep you stagnant, if it is not working; accept it and move on. Never allow distance to snatch him/her away from you. When he/she offends you, call his/her attention and talk it over. Do not allow one sided communication, otherwise you will end up dating yourself. Whatsoever you don't like in marriage; do not accept it in a relationship.

Don't be deceive when people introduce you to different RELATIONS, UNCLES, COUSINS and PARENTS. Not every action is sincere some are for formalities. We should always obey and observe Newton's 3rd law of motion.

      Never allow your Ex to make you to give up on love, you need fake to understand original.

Don't waste your feelings and time on a wrong date; an unprepared mind will not value it. I am your relationship adviser, @luckyspark ORLU FIRST SON