Tips for Moving Forward After a Relationship Ends

in #love7 years ago (edited)

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It is never good when a relationship ends because of the difficult strain and pressure that often comes from such a relationship. However, there are a few things that people can do when it comes to moving on after such a relationship ends. These four ideas should be seen so you can get a better idea of what you want to get out of your relationship. You should use them so you can have an easier time with keeping your life from going off the rails after a period of time.

1. Make sure that you accept the fact that this relationship is over.

People who don't accept the fact that a relationship has ended after often feel desperate when it comes to such a point. People will feel as though they want to do something of use just to try and get the relationship back and running. You have to just focus on moving forward without having to stick around and think that you can actually do something after a while.

2. Talk with your friends about the relationship.

You have to talk with other people outside of whoever was in your relationship so you can let out your feelings. You just have to talk about what you feel you do wrong and address it with an audience that you are familiar with. This might be done to give you a way to communicate with someone and to express your feelings without any problems coming out of it.

3. You should concentrate on some other things in your life to make yourself a little more enjoyable.

You should take a look at other things like starting a new hobby or taking up classes in something of interest. It is good to concentrate on different actions in life so you can get your mind clear. You have to do this if you want to find a way to keep yourself from dealing with issues that come with what you might get yourself into.

4. Talk with other people who you have not been in contact with for a while.

Sometimes you might have a better time with other people who you are familiar with than if you just stuck with people who you might have tried to get into a relationship with. You have to control yourself the right way if you want to keep your relationships with people you are already familiar with strong while avoiding the old relationships that you have gotten out of after a while. It is all needed to make yourself feel at home.

You have to be sure that you know what to do when trying to get forward when moving through a relationship. A relationship might end up being a challenge for you but there is a way for you to get through it after a while when you take a look at what you can do to make it easier for you to move forward in life.
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Great read!

Thank you

What are you gonna do when the people you've discussed your past relationship with are using it against you and also using it to making jest of you??

Why would those you call your friends want to make jest of your failed relationship? It is another eye opener that they(your friends) are sheep in wolf's clothing. Your true friends should be able to stand by you in times like this. Remember the popular saying:

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

This is one area where your friends loyalty can be put to test.

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i think that first point is the most important...people find it hard to accept that a relationship is over n it makes them stuck

well, they are stuck because they are not willing to let go even when it is evident that the relationship is over. Break up is a wound that heals over time depending on how well the victim can handle the break up.

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