She's studying you. Women's Test Guidelines

If you managed to invite a girl to a date, then it's too early to rejoice, because it is not yet known whether there will be a second. Provided that you like her and you would like to see her again, the prospect of a second meeting depends entirely on her. But she already takes her decision on the basis of her first date.

 Almost every girl is testing her companion when they meet. This is not the test when it connects sensors to your body and sits with a pencil in front, periodically recording. She misses your image through the prism of her feminine intuition, evaluating you as a potential partner and a man as a whole. It can not be said that we do not do the same. Each of us at least at the subconscious level studies a companion to determine if not a degree of compatibility, then at least her personality. But since in the classical scheme of courtship the dominant is the man, the girl evaluates you most carefully. That's what you need to know about testing you. Read this and remember before you go on the next date.

Do not take it personally.

Remember that she is testing everyone and her assessment does not discredit your human qualities. This can be compared with the purchase of a car: even if there is a large selection of steep cars before you, you will still look under the hood of each, regardless of its brand and year of production. The same applies to women. Even if you seem very interesting and attractive to her, she must study you to make sure she is right.

Each woman has her own assessment parameters

Despite the fact that there are several common evaluation parameters, in fact, every woman is looking for something specific in a person. While one focuses on some masculine qualities, the other focuses on something else. For example, some girls like daring "bad guys", while others are sympathetic to the image of a caring husband.

You are always experienced

If it infuriates you, then we are sorry, for it is a fact: you are constantly being tested. Although in fact it is not so bad. After all, if a girl carefully looks at you on a date, then, apparently, she likes you and she sees you as a potential partner.

It will provoke you

This in itself is a huge test. She pushes the boundaries of your communication to see your reaction in different situations. The girl wants to know how you argue, what is important to you; what you like and what does not; How do you behave with a certain rapprochement.

She introduces you to her friends

This is one of the most serious checks. If she is ready to introduce you to her friends, then she likes you and the girl is ready to let you into her life. Now she wants to understand how her friends will appreciate you. Get ready: they will ask a lot of questions and maybe provoke you to watch your reaction. If they like you, it will greatly ease your situation. And if not, then, probably, new trials will be ahead of you.

She pays attention to who you are looking at

Let's say you are sitting in a restaurant. A sexy waitress approached you and waited a few seconds at your table. Did you notice her beautiful legs, bare to the bottom of the short skirt? So your companion noticed. More precisely, I noticed how you look at the waitress. And you thought she would not pay attention? When you get acquainted, and even more on a date, the girl attaches importance to every little thing. She learns the language of your body when you look at other women. So your companion is trying to understand how capable you are of being faithful.

She asks you about the past One of the obvious signs that you are being checked is the persistent questions about your past romances. It's not just curiosity - it's important for her to know how your previous relationships ended and what your role is in that. Why did the previous girl leave you? Or, on the contrary, why did you leave? The way you talk about your ex-girlfriends, clearly demonstrates your masculine and human qualities.

Your manners

To say that if you do not pay for it in a restaurant, it will significantly reduce your chances of a second meeting, we think, it's not worth it. But there are less obvious things that a girl can pay attention to. For example, give her a hand when you go down the stairs. Of course, the girl could manage herself, but so you show concern and show that she cares for you. Assistance even in such a small matter will be very pleasant for her and will be appreciated.

She asks you about your goals

Questions about goals and dreams on the first date may seem very banal to you. But it is important for her to know who you see yourself in a few years, to find out about your plans and ambitions. Does it matter so much now? Hardly, the more weave anything you can to her. But if you like a girl and she thinks about your future communication even a little, her interest in your future plans can be understood.

If she tests you, then she likes you

If the girl is not interested in you, then she will not waste her time on you. Why would she do this if she still does not see you together? But the attempt to learn you speaks to the contrary. Testing you is a desire to understand how compatible you are with her and how you can fit into her life. Even if a part of what we described above, you do not like, then look for the pluses and resign yourself. Does she test you? So it represents you together. And did not you achieve this by inviting her to a date?