The marriage effect: ¿How does your relationship change?

"Marriage means surrendering completely, fighting for you and knowing that there will be storms, but that the ship will not sink."

They address each other differently

• Many say they feel different after getting married, although they can not explain how, even if they had lived together before.

• Something changes in the relationship, in their interior, in how they are seen, treated and also in how others see them.

• Maybe you had not noticed, but these are some ways in which marriage changes you if it is true love.

• They talk to each other differently

• Saying "husband" or "wife" sounds odd if they have been called boyfriends for a long time, but now

• It is different, at the time of pronouncing it you feel pride and much more union to your partner.

• They take care more

• If the other one gets sick or something happens to him, you feel how an absolute concern invades you. You are more on the lookout and you are full of tenderness.

• The fights know different

• Before ending the relationship was an option, now they look for any way to fix their problems, although sometimes they want to throw everything out the window.

• They feel invincible

• Together they feel invincible, they can go anywhere holding hands without fear, they know how to move, they feel safe, supported and complemented.

• The others treat them differently

• They do not put you anymore but not at all, before when they lived together as boyfriends they did not feel that same support from others. Now, they see them with respect, tenderness and support them much more.

• Future plans and dreams become of both

• Counting individual dreams and together become plans for both, one seeks to help the other to achieve them and vice versa.

• They feel part of a family

Although they probably already felt that way before, now they know that they do not play a secondary role, now they are the protagonists, with their rules, with their way of living and their absolute freedom to decide the color of the curtains.