1. If you could invite anyone in the world to dinner, who would it be?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4. What would constitute a "Perfect" day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30 year old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

1. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
2. If you could change anything about the way you were raised what would it be?
3. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much details as possible?
4. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability what would it be?
5. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself your life the future or anything else what would you want to know?
6. Is there something that you've dreamed of doing for a long time why hanen't you done it?
7. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
8. What do you value most in a friendship?
9. What is your most treasured memory?
10. What is your most terrible memory?
11. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
12. What Does friendship mean to you?
13. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

Alternate sharing something you consider positive characteristic of your partner share a total of five items.

1. How close and warm is your family? Do you fell your chidhood was happier than most other people's?
2. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

Make three true "we" statements each. For instance "we are both in

this room feeling.........."

complete this sentence:
"I wish I had someone with whom I could share......"

If you were going to become a close friend with your partner please share what would be important for him or her to know.

Tell your partner what you like about them be very honest this time saying things that you might not say to somenone you've just met.

Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

When did you last cry in front of another person?By yourself?

Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

What if anything is too serious to be joked about?

If you were to die this enening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone waht would you most regret not having told someone? Why you told them yet?