To Love or To Be Loved?❤

Love is a beautiful thing, they say.

Love makes things look beautiful even when they are not. Love makes us look forward to living the next day without knowing what it holds. In short, we can say "Love is life".

But, what bothers me is not love itself. What bothers me is the struggle (or better put, the balance) between loving someone & being loved by someone.

Often times, we find ourselves in unpleasant situations where we love our partner more than they love us. Now you get my point, right? Good😉

I personally do not like being in a situation where more of the love comes from me, it can be very draining and uninteresting😔😪
You keep doing everything to make them see how much you love them, and then what? You get back like barely half of what you give😟😩 I can't deal mehn.

I've heard people say this love thing works in different ways for different gender. They say as a guy, you have to find a lady that would go all out for you despite any circumstance....and as a lady, they say find you a guy that is willing to go "every length" to prove his love for you.

Am I the only one getting confused here??😒

So both parties are supposed to find someone that would show them more love than they can give. Oh well! 😒
Sincerely, there are few times we get lucky to find someone with mutual vibes & everything goes perfectly fine. But honestly, that happens only FEW TIMES.

So I guess what actually pushed me to write this piece, is to find out several people's opinion about this issue.

"Would you rather love more or be loved more?"