LOVE is like Dirty Water
Love is like dirty water. With time it settles a little and you begin to see the inside of the bucket a little bit clearer.
A lot of people make some really crazy decisions in the heat of the moment just because of that raging fire, then they regret years later.
Whatever "love decision" you are making right now, hold back a little and analyse it under the fire of commonsense. I hear people say ''Love is all that matters''; This is a very dangerous mantra that, I'm sure, was first said by someone in love and it started to sound like good advise. It justifies dangerous decisions.
Love isn't the only things that matters. There are other things. Like what will the kids eat, are we really compatible, will I grow with this person, healthwise is it safe to marry this person, the way he is beating me now what if he beats me to death one day, is she really the one....
Be wise. Emotions are blinding. Filter with logic always.
I just read this wonderful post by @jasimg
HOW TO TELL IF IT'S LOVE OR LUST
... you may want too check it out too