I totally agree with you.. a healty relationship requires two whole completed person.. If one side is not ready for taking a relationship's responsibility, the other side can't continue for a long time. Each person should be free to talk or discuss everything in the relationship. This is what I experienced in my old relationship. I tried to fix every crack but I couldn't manage it because the opposit was not helping me.. I was sure in the beginning that he is my destiny but I woke up from fairy tale. Now I am happier..