How Women Should Be Loved- Because Sex Is A Part Of Our Happiness. (Maybe NSFW)

Have you ever experienced being so mesmerized by the mere presence of a woman?

Women are such beautiful creatures that even Angels fell for them.

And so we are attracted. We do everything to be near them, and maybe make the one you love want you too.

Some are successful, some are not.

The trouble starts, when we do get what we want and don't know how to REALLY LOVE THE WOMAN.

It is imperative that we do well in this area, or else the mutual happiness will be lackluster and may even be heading to the rocks. Don't even think to try again if you fail, it will just end the same way.

Here are my tips for that steamy LOVE, you and your woman so deserve.


Start with the mind.

Love and sex involves the mind. And unless properly excited and prepared, the actual act will be half as fun. Therefore loving your woman does not start and end in bed.

When you just got home, greet her with a slight kiss on the lips, and lock her gaze with yours. Whisper into her ears "miss you much hon". Slowly slip your arms around her and press her body tenderly against yours. Kiss her on the forehead, then ask "How was your day?". Again gazing intently into her eyes that has captured you for countless of times.

All your actions and words, should be aimed at making her know, that you think of her and that you are interested in everybit of details of her day.

She may try to push you away, saying she smells sweaty and this and that. Lock her in your arms again, and tell her "I like it when you smell sweaty!", kiss her on the nape of her neck...murmuring "hmmmmm, I love you hon."

Watch her melt into your loving arms.

Let her do the things she wants to do for you. While you watch her do them. Watch her with gratitude, show in your face that you love it, that someone is doing her best to make you comfortable. Thank your woman, for every bit of things she is telling you that she did today, for your welfare.

When you see the chance to hug her from behind. Do not let it slip away. Take that moment and embrace her, kissing her at the back of her neck, the shoulder and the soft parts of her back. Say "I love kissing you hon."

Make her let go of anything she is doing. And ask "what would you like? We'll eat dinner first or I will make you my dinner?" Watch her smile as she thinks of how you actually do that.

While eating, let her eat, while you stare at her as if you just got your first date with her. Tease her toes. And if you can compliment the food, it'll be much, much better. Sincerety plays a crucial role in everything.

After dinner, help her in putting things in place. Always trying to put your bodies close and as much as possible touching together. Talk, ask questions and show that you enjoy the times like these that you can do some things together, even if it is just your very own kitchen. Sooner or later, because of various reasons in our lives, even these simple things will be impossible to do. Enjoy it with your woman while you can.

Snuck a kiss here and there, as if you're just making excuses of helping her, but actually, you are very interested in getting to kiss her again and again.

After all of these, both of your minds are now prepared.

Prepare the bodies

Ask her to take the shower together.
Request that you do the lathering on her soft beautiful body. And if she could do the same to you. Do not finish everything there. Let it be an enjoyable intro to a harmonic night. Every night as much as possible.

Kiss her on the lips, that you fell in love with. Those lips, that when you first saw her, you were wondering if you could ever taste them. It is now yours, kiss them tenderly, taste them, bite them gently, because you want her to feel how excited you are, knowing your lips can get so close like this.

Caress her. Use the lightest touch possible. As if you are trying to feel the ends of her body hairs, explore, everywhere, do the same light touch, while you look her in the eyes.

When you get to your FAVORITE parts, squeeze a little, tenderly, use your lips to double the sensation. Use your tounge to triple it. Use them like a hungry baby.

Do not haste. Make her feel that you OWN her completely, that there's no reason to rush. That you have all the time to explore. Everything. From her head to her toe. Act as if you want your bodies to be intertwined tightly together. As tight as possible.

Savor the moment

Do not start the copulation, until her body is screaming for it. Or she is literally screaming for it. Let her decide. Let it happen naturally, like an inevitable result of all your actions throughout the day. When you do start. Be as slow as possible. Bathe yourselves to the sensation that you both are so blessed to be able to share the moment of union.

Savor the feeling of your body slowly being one with hers. The undeniable proof that SHE belongs to you and you to her. That wonderful feeling that the woman you once just thought of loving is now actually one with you.

Slowly. Enter that sacred place with care. You are having the chance to mix your personality with her personality. You are given the right to take her to the highest of human sensations, you are given the pass to enter her innermost place. The chance to make a new person, out of the both of you. Watch her. Watch the woman you love feel you inside her body. Watch how she enjoys the feeling that the man she loves, is the man loving her that moment. You are both enjoying a very rare situation. Let the feeling linger.

Continually caress her. Do your thing, but always caress. Feel her. Feel her whole body. While you slowly take the pace faster. You grow more agressive, more passionate. In tune with the rising tensions of both your bodies. Yet in the midst of all of these. You are watching her every bit of reaction, you feel how her body twitch and turn, how her face shows her inner feelings of ecstacy. You are the the conductor of this musical orchestra, and you are raising the tempo.

Whisper to the woman you love, how you like doing what you are doing with her. Tell her you love her. And not to ever forget HOW you two make love with each other.

When you finally get the urge to release your half of the code, stop. Relax and check if she has done hers yet. Do not ever be the first. Be a real gentleman, even here. At this point. Open the door for the woman you love. Let her burst her excitement. This is love.

When you have both reached the peak, embrace her, cuddle and playfully kiss. Say: "You are so delicious". Kiss again. Tell her how you appreciate and enjoy the chance to be that close to her. Let her sleep first. Don't forget to kiss her goodnight. Because, if you have done everything correctly, it is indeed a good night.

Tomorrow, you will both face the harsh realities of life again. Wake her up with a kiss and the assurance, that you will face them together. That she should not worry about anything, that she can leave the worrying to you, her man. Let her know you will always hold her hand. While you are walking together or in the face of troubles. That you will always be there.

That is the way to love a woman, as I know it.

Do you think this will be effective? -east