Years ago, I went to a singles event that totally sucked. I was outside the event location about to leave when I overheard a girl talking about how she had met her fiancé. A large group of her girlfriends were crowded around her as she was saying she read a book that was quite spiritual in that she followed the steps the book said to do and then met her man 30-40 days later. I literally had no shame in walking over to her and saying: "Excuse me! What was the name of that book?!"
As it turns out, the name of that book is "The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction" by Arielle Ford. I highly recommend you go right to your local library, bookstore, or online marketplace and pick up a copy! I am not sponsored, but rather, it is a book that greatly shifted my thinking to positive when it came to finding a partner.
It's easy to think positively that you can find the right house to buy, or a job to take, but when it comes to finding love, we often get negative and depressed and think it's not meant to be for us, but this is not the case! It's when we stay open and ready for finding that right person, and knowing that he/she exists, that the person is able to step into your life.
The book explains about how to make a list of attributes for your ideal partner, as well as a collage - both will help you to evoke the feeling you will have with your significant other, and also give you a sense of knowing that that person is out there.
Trust me, I know it can get really depressing meeting a lot of frogs and wondering if your prince or princess is really out there. But just know that each person you date helps teach you valuable lessons of what you do and don't like in a partner so that you can really and truly appreciate the right one when he/she comes along.
I'm not saying that every day you can feel super smilie, but I am suggesting that in following these steps, you can find yourself with a sense of calm as you can better enjoy the search process.
I hope this video inspires you to keep it positive and know that your love is out there, maybe right around the corner, waiting for you! On a side note, I completely believe that we have more than one soulmate, and it's just a matter of the right timing in finding each other with an open heart and mind.