“I make reservations for playtime, to keep my man.”
10/26/17
Yeah, I said it! I don’t care how it sounds. Because in these oh so confusing times, truth is vital. I can gather many occasions where friends and acquaintances of mine, have aimlessly complained about their gent's lack of maturity. I mean so much so, that one has nothing left to do, but conjure solutions. As a woman in her mid-twenties, I’ve had the early privilege of engaging conversation with men of all ages, creed, and class. And the main thing that sticks out is: man's thirst for escapism, he loves objects, symbolic gestures, and illusionist acts. It’s time women accept this so called dilemma, and handle it in a few ways:
• Say less
• Become his favorite toy
• Stroke his ego
SAY LESS
Listen to what he’s saying, ladies! People are a reflection of what they verbalize. Remember, you’re looking to get in his mind and earn his trust as soon as you’re able to. Be keen, as it is valuable to:
• Engage in his likes/dislikes
• Pay close attention to his strengths and gain awareness of his weaknesses.
• Make your man of choice, the focal point for a while. A few hours will suffice (depending on your situation) as this can take time.
“Creating a space for vulnerability will later manifest comfort."
BE HIS FAVORITE TOY
Man loves escapism, right? We are curious beings, and combining this with the mans extremity of imagination, can be the most tantalizing thing on earth sometimes, I swear! Have you ever tried role-play? Embrace your inner sexy, dance around with it; add some swag to your appeal! I can’t tell you exactly how, because well then, that would be inauthentic. However, practice makes perfect, so challenge yourself, to the first subtle move. Tell him how his scent turns you on. Show up to his house, with nothing under your coat, but edible panties - Hell he’ll like it! Men enjoy a great game, so play it right, as a lady should. And remember: A man is always loyal to his favorite toy.
STROKE HIS EGO
To stroke a mans ego, you must have a minimal understanding of what makes him tick. How do you establish the deal with your knight? Well, with knowledge of your man (along with having a vagina) gives you some bonus points! I encourage you to support his strengths, and add value his weaknesses.
“You are a man on a mission, and I’m loving it so!”
Give bae a sense of heroism. Tap into your inner Queen! This new and spicy you, will have him soooo addicted - like he's on heroine! As you continue this behavior, your scent will be so intoxicating, that he will want to drink you as long as he can!