It makes sense to confront your husband when he is calm and explain why you had problems with what he said or did. Unfortunately a lot of men don't love their wives the way they should. They don't treat them that well either. Which is why Peter said what he said,

(1 Peter 3:7 NIV) Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

If you're a believer and your spouse is also a believer then God is not only your father. God is also your father-in-law. God cares deeply about how you treat your spouse and how your spouse treats you.