We Have To Count Them In.....

Continue from... (We Need To Take A Chance.....)

We need to show our love to our own kids whenever and wherever. As for another step, we need give our respect to them when they make their decision. We should treat them as one of our friends and we cannot abandon them because of they are kids. We should count them in as family member and we need their suggestion as adult.

The kids might be very young and cannot make decision like us, but they still have felling and thought. We can think ourselves that what is the memory that we can recall in our life, most properly we can remember first thing in life is either good felling or bad. But mostly we can recall bad memory in life at our childhood.

At our time, most of our parents like to push one side when we are kids. And also they like to speech one way direction, we only need to listen to them because most of our grandparents treat them in this way. When baby booming generation they are always struggle for their life and the have the beater life when they were young.

So they always like to mention about their pass experience and compare with us with their childhood life. Actually it is nothing wrong that they talk about their past life because it can be learn as lesson. But we cannot go back to their life and we need to suit with current situation and up to date with tomorrow.

If we want to be under control with our kids, we need to be ahead of them for us to guide them when they need our help. There is not a best way to handle our kids but only we can try to give our best to guide them. Each kid has different attitude and situation, so there is not best way to educate them.

Only two thing we can teach or introduce them is to know God in their life and trust in God. Secondly not to be giving up in life whatever they want in their life. We need to train them to have desire for whatever they want to achieve. But to become a parents is not an easy task that what we have think off.

If our kids can perform in their life but we cannot provide them what they need, we are at the failing our duty in picture. But we can provide them what they need, yet if they cannot perform is look like a kind of easy situation. But we cannot push what we want them to be.

To Be Continue.....

GO WELL....(By: PatrickSanLin. MSC 007)