Show Some Maturity : No need to measure up, Stay true to yourself

Classy is when a woman has everything to flaunt but choses not to show it.. Anonymous

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Don't crave something that belongs to another: don't indulge in extravagant lifestyle just because you want to others to think "you 've arrive." Be modest ... Pst Chris phd.

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Its high some persons actually come to the realisation that: we are not all at the same level at some point in life. At some point in life depending on the circumstance there may be some things someone you admire may have acquired and you wish you can afford it as well. My dear there is really no need to keep fighting yourself and striving by all means possible to get those things.

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The truth is we all need to learn how to be contented with what we have: because all we have may turn out to be all we truly required in the first place.

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Stay true to yourself my dear... there is no need to measure up. Have a simplicity to your life. You actually to not need in real time to stretch and stress yourself to do and say things or even travel places "beyond you" at the moment, just because you want to show off or identify with a certain group.

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I know of a family in Port Harcourt who sent their 3 children to a model college (junior high) because it seemed to be the talk of the town and so they did not wanted to be left behind, especially because the other parents in the same compound that we lived had their children there as well. They wanted to feel among and to measure up meanwhile they did have enough resource as of the time.
With time everyone could see the obvious as they could not meet up with their rent and were in debt in other areas as well.

There experience thought me alot:

Do not dress to impress

• They put themselves at a very tight corner in their finance and life in general :
  They put themselves under undue pressure and struggle to keep up, just because they wanted to impress.

• Don't place yourself under any kind of pressure to look like or ve the recognition of others. Don't dress to impress.

show some maturity

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maturity is when you travel outside the country without flooding social media with picture of the plane ticket, plane interior and all what not.

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• It pays to be your true self: it would only some time for you to realise those you are to be like actually are craving to be like you.

Have some simplicity to your life and show some level of maturity.