RE: If You Don't Like Yourself, You Can't Expect Others To Like You, Either
I'm glad that you were able to appreciate this message! Thank you for commenting, too!
Yes, poor self-esteem/image is a serious problem. I started working on it when I was in my 20s and, although I've made great strides, I still work on it now. One difference, though, is I really don't much care what people think about my physical appearance anymore; this is not to say that I run around looking like a bum, though!
I've never heard this about CEOs, and I suspect that being told that one looks good is not going to launch one into the career path of CEO - more likely, a performer or model, politician or salesperson, or some other career where superficial good looks are "important." It takes a great deal more than just narcissism, or even just confidence in one's physical appearance, to be a CEO, and lots of people - attractive or not - aren't qualified to do it. I suspect that successful CEOs are usually experienced or have a degree from a high-quality university, intelligent and either possess high EQ (both social and personal), or are psychopathic. That said, psychopaths are generally less successful as leaders than their empathic counterparts...
Still, self-image is definitely important, and it is so sad that people spend so much time tearing each other, and themselves, down...
The point about CEOs wasn't to say that if you are good looking you can become a CEO. It's that often those that get great positive affirmation about looks, academic capability, or whatever, it can have a strong impact of their confidence and aid them in remarkable success in life. I don't think I wrote my point well the first time.
Yes, this I can definitely agree with. It is definitely different from your previous post. Thanks!