SELF-CRUSH

Read an article posted by @petoz on steemit recently talking about HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE. Was one motivating write up, but in all what caught my attention was the word self-crush, having been pondering over it ever since hence inspired this write up.

What is self-crush? This can be defined as a special feeling, love, care one have towards oneself, in other words its truly falling in love with yourself.

I know each and every one of use have this special person in our life. One person we could do almost anything for. Because of this we put them first in our life regardless of whether it makes us happy or not, the goal is just to make them happy. This is not wrong as a matter of fact one get this sense of fulfillment when we see our love ones happy. But have we thought of making our self happy.

Is it possible to have a crush on yourself? Hell yes, this doesn’t make or mean you are arrogant or better than others it just simply means you recognize your inner values, your desires, want, preference, beliefs. It might sound selfish, but you know there’s no price to pay for one’s happiness. People would say stuffs, people would say you’ve changed, some could say you’ve become selfish but people who truly love you would understand that you just trying to put yourself first.

Self-crush can be expressed in a lot of ways. Just start doing what you love, just anything that makes you happy. You could start by taking yourself out on that vacation or that lovely spot you’ve always wanted to see, or buying that cloth, shoe, watch you have always wanted, it could be buying that special delicacy you’ve always wanted to taste, or as little as saying lovely, positive words to yourself. Just learn to make yourself happy as the saying goes if you don’t make yourself happy who will. Develop a self-crush on yourself today, learn to make your self happy.