Things which changes after moving to a college from a school

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Hi guys, Today I am going to write my 2nd post on this platform. I hope this post will be liked by the audience.

So let's start. We all went to school and school and some people are in school and they have some time left to enjoy the school life. This post is for both the types of student. As we grow up many things in our lives changes. In modern days we are running behind money and we don't have much time to think about our past and present. I am sure many people don't even think about their school or college but when they will think just for a second they will start missing. In this post I am not saying that school is better than college or college is better than school either. Both have their own facilities.

So let's talk about some points about both school and college:

(1) Freedom:

In school, we used to have a large playground and more than 40 minutes of break. And countless friends. All friends were same for us. In college days we wanted freedom. When we were in schools we were just kids and hence we were not allowed to go home alone unless our parents allowed that. We can't come with our relatives until they were verified by our parents. We wanted to go home alone, play games on the roads. Run out of class and do some fun but we couldn't.

But In college, we get all the freedom but we don't want that freedom. We wish to go back to our school days and have fun with our school friends. In school, people wish to join us when we play but in college, people lost the interest to play. I think they don't lose interest but they want to show how mature they have become. The real freedom was to play, study and having fun in school without any tension.

(2) Mental Pressure

In school our minds were free. Our daily routine was good. We were regular in every work whether it was study or exercise. There was a friendly competition between all of our friends and we used to study hard and tried to acquire the highest marks in the class and stand as the number one student. We used to help each other in class and help each other with our home works. Teachers were very friendly with us.

But in college, our finds were not free at all. Only one thing was there pressure and pressure. Our only motive was to earn highest marks but this scene was completely different from the school one. Our goal remains the same entire year until we see the paper in our examination hall. And after getting the paper only one thing comes to mind, "I have to pass at least." So why our goal changed in a fraction of a second? The reason is- we don't study regularly. And one good noticeable point is that in school the one who leaves the exam hall is the genius and in case of college who leaves the exam hall don't know anything.

(3) Friends And Family

In school every friend is our best friend. We used to play with everyone. We were never lonely. The truth is we didn't even knew the meaning of lonely at that time. misunderstanding was there between friends but just for some moments. Jealousy was there but that too just for few moments.

In college life this things are different. We end up with few friends. Everybody show themselves as a friend of ours but they are not. Back stabbing, talking behind our back, jealousy are common things in college.

Final Words: My motivation was not to show college as inferior but many things are true in my case. I wrote whatever I face in my life. Both the place is good.

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Moving from school to college has really made me realize the difference in freedom. We yearn for the independence of college, but there's something nostalgic about the carefree days spent playing with a bunch of friends during school breaks. Also, we have to work much harder with our college tasks, so as a student, I often check online help, and after reading the review at https://edubirdie.org/edubirdie-legit/ I have no doubts if I need to hire an expert. The mental pressure in college is no joke compared to the friendly competition we had in school. Friendships in college can be tricky as we get to know new challenges like betrayal and jealousy.

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