Give fish to those that want fish and also meat to dose that want meat

I have been in this situation in which, I want to be close to people, I’m a type of person that love interacting with different character of people, but I found myself in a condition that I’m been ignore by a some type of individuals, in which I hate to be ignore which makes me feel sad, unaccepted sometime lonely, especially when some say to me that I should be quit because the person is not interesting in what I am saying.

In the past years I understand that when I’m together with some type of individual especially when I’m interacting or chatting with them I do say things that they’re not interested on, for example me sharing a story of an action movie with my female friend who love’s romantic movies. So I started studying the people around me to know what the like, what they want, what they want to hear and also some of their hobby. Then I try to talk to them about those things they want to hear and the things that they are interested on. Then since then I was not ignore by most people or been treated different, in fact I started running from some people because the thought I also like doing what they are doing or their type of person.

That story I told you earlier is to is bring your understanding to what I mean by give fish to dose that need fish and also meat to those who need meat. In live some many people make so many mistakes in which sometime we do give things to people that don’t find what we are giving them important. I wonder why a rich man would spend his money buying expensive cloth for his friends that have a luxurious wardrobe, in which his friend may wear it once or may not even wear it. Do not forget that there are people living in the street with dirty cloth and some wear rages, we should think of it among this people who deserve those expensive cloth, in fact the money use in buying this cloth cloud help or even change a living of a poor man on the street.

Your poor friend doesn't need and expensive drink, he need good money and advise to start a business, it look so odd for you to carry your friend that have music as a career to a football match view, because that may not help your friend in his musical career, you are to carry your friend to a musical concert or even escort him to the studio and also chart about music most at times and also try to buy musical stuffs for that person.

Chart about business with your friend who is doing business mostly, chart about fashion with your friend that love fashion. Buy them stuff that cloud promote their career, from there you are helping them. When the fall into trouble the will come to you sometimes. Also when you interacting with them you would learn more, don’t waste your time giving people what would not be useful to them. Always try to impact to people, remember even you yourself follow people that you know they can help you.

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