How Do YOU Build Your Dreams? Do You Fight For Success? It May Be Time To change...
Are you willing to be successful in your life? I guess so.
So what is the meaning behind a successful life then? For me, it's building a life in which I feel happy and fulfilled. For this purpose, I will need to listen to what makes my heart sing. I will need to gather all those dreams I have and see which one is the most significant, which one could bring me the most.
As I'm a real dream factory, I have new dreams popping up everyday. I need to sort them out, select, refine until I find out which dream to follow and how I can start to work with it. Then it doesn't remain an illusion, a cloud in my mind, a hope in my sky that gives me joy when I think about it but have nothing real and substantial.
Let's say that you have some old dreams that you've never achieved because of so many good reasons, how can you truly feel successful in your life if you don't follow your dearest dreams? If you don't follow what lies in your heart for such a long time?
How can you feel whole if you don't listen to your heart, whatever it takes?
Do you need to sacrifice anything to make that dream come true?
Do you prefer to sacrifice that dream to keep a sense of security?
Do you prefer to stay in a comfortable situation rather than taking the risk to follow your vision?
How can you fulfill a dream that fits your current reality without destroying everything you have? So that you gain the self-esteem and joy to fulfill something you thought only others could achieve...
What comes first then?
You have a vision of what makes you feel happy, joyful and light. Once you have this beautiful dream, your heart can't stop pumping and your desire to achieve it gets so strong that nothing can stop you. You start to find solutions to manifest this dream on Earth, so that it does not stay in the dream world and actually becomes real.
Want to paint? you buy paper, pencils and find some time in your schedule. Want to write? you open a blog, write everyday, share your content and build your audience. Want to travel? you talk to your boss, take a leave or leave your job, buy a ticket and fly away... and so on...
You just start to get practical. You had a dream, a vision, now you make it happen and you start to organize yourself. You make plans. You place that dream into the reality of space and time. You create a small nest for this dream and like a little plant, you nourish it, you care for it, you grow it into something more tangible and solid.
The dream starts to feel a little more dense, more alive. Now it has been organized with deadlines, goals, schedules, routines, it starts to take part of your daily workflow. It starts to ground, to be anchored into the Earth.
At the beginning, as it is just a little plant, you feel anything could crush it. Any strong wind, fire, wave could take it away from you. Any doubt, fear, frustration could blow it away and send it back to where it belongs... the void...
For some people, manifesting dreams is so easy, they write dozens of book about it and make others hope.
For others, achieving a dream is just something you see in books, in movies or during your sleep until you go back to your sweet and cherished comfort. Because each time you have tried to follow a dream, you failed, you got frustrated and stopped believing in following your dreams.
I was one of them, but I've looked into myself, met and transformed my inner blocks. Anyone can do that, with a little help and a strong will to change.
From dream to real. A tricky mind game.
I've discovered that there is an old school and a new school way of manifesting dreams.
The old school guy builds from a state of fear.
Fear of lack, fear of insecurity, fear of not being successful, fear of what will come next, and so on... He operates mostly through struggle, sweat and blood. He's fighting battles after battles to achieve his dreams whatever the price is, whatever suffering it implies. He's struggling with frustration, doubts or resistances of any kind. Usually, if he achieved anything, he may feel that he has sailed against the wind all the time. Every challenges tried to stop him, leaving him bitter and angry about the harshness of the world. He blames outside circumstances for all these resistances and never himself. He didn't know there could be another way, an opposite way, as everything in the world has an opposite polarity, like the day and the night... I was one of them.
The new school guy build from a state of love.
He operates with trust and faith to know when to take action. He knows it exists a kind of universal flow that he may use to build his dreams. He's not alone, struggling against reality, he uses invisible forces to reach success. He knows everything will come in time. He doesn't fight or repress his fears and doubts, he welcomes them and transform them into will power and focus. He does not need to push or fight. He just learns to be patient, perseverant and crazy enough to know that things WILL fall into place if he puts the right amount of effort at the right moment. He will meet the right person or get the help he needs at the right time if his dream is truly aligned with his highest destiny. I am learning this.
It seems that in those times, we should all learn another way to achieve our dreams with more ease and elegance, without struggle. It doesn't mean without hard work and discipline, but when you find dreams that are aligned with your joy, then hard work, courage and motivation seem to come hand in hand and help you overcome any challenges you would find along the way...
And everything just flows as you learn to dance and play with your heart in the garden of creation.
Thank you for reading! If you have been this far, feel free to follow my blog or upvote, so you can fill my dream :)
Peace
X'ianda
