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RE: The ESCAPE/WITHDRAWAL Character

in #life7 years ago

Great share Arvydas - I am familiar with this character and pattern. It's been a point I've especially challenged myself within over the last year.

An example is within networking my networks - where I make the effort to keep the channels open.

I've recognized that many people have this point within them to some degree or another (escape/withdraw)...and ironically that is what I used as an excuse/justification to remain in the pattern. Meaning: blame/justify/judge "others" behavior" as to why things wouldn't evolve/develop.

So - the change is this: making the effort....the push for engagement where I would otherwise go into retreat and or just not bother with following up.

I like the word play: "follow through"

It's like a recognition of the point and grabbing the ball and running with it and making/taking my best shot - there's a natural follow through in the motion when and as I let go and commit myself within the action and motion

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Exactly.... and for me especially realizing that it's ok to miss the shot once in a while. a learning curve

michael jordan.jpg

Reminds me of the story of Michael Jordan - back when he was playing for the tar heels - before he really created himself - Long story short - He gave himself permission to take the big shots.

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