I can't help these people overcome their dislike

So true. If people use you being this or that,( .........fill in a not nice name or karacter trait) as focus point, instead of reacting to what you are saying and what you mean with what you are saying, there is nothing you can do but move on.
No matter how much I do my best to describe things in an impersonal, general way.
People "read" all kind of things between the lines, and from their conclusion you can see, they see it as a personal attack or insult of some sort. Which, especially online, would take hours of typing to undo the impression they have made of you. It is not even possible i think if they already made up their mind, that you are such or so, and often I'll just let it rest.