A Letter to the future/写给十年后的我 |月旦评

woolfe19861008 (52)in #life • 6 years ago (edited)

Dear SunWei:

I'm SunWei.Yes,i'm you!

I'm glad you've come back here for our ten years appointment.

You are more than 40 years old.Your life has been basically stereotyped. If you don't have financial freedom, don't be reluctant to do it, the family is the most important.

TongTong is 13 years old.Don't care too much about her academic performance and focus on cultivating her willing to be commonplace.Don't forget that your expectation of her is to be the one who applauded others.If you are indifferent to TongTong because of the second baby,I won't let him be born.

Is mom and dad healthy?You've been half a lifetime in your life,you should be in a placid mood and have a heart-to-heart talk with daddy.Persuade him to drink less, and keep his blood pressure controlled.Spend more time with him to physical exercise.It's all i owe him for years, and you'll have to return it for me.Does mom still enjoy knitting sweaters?TongTong has grown up,maybe she don't like to wear the sweater that grandma knited for her.Try to go shopping with your mother as much as you can, and she'll be happy even if you can't afford.

Is the work of your wife stll busy?She has little time to stay at home because of her busy work, try your best to do something for her and don't have any complaints.Put up or shut up!

Keep in touch with friends, pay attention to your body and drink less.Friends will be unhappy if you don't drink,the family will be unhappy if you are in drink. So drink less, and everyone will be happy.More than a dozen years later,It will be a beautiful scenery when you can find a bunch of old men to go to the Internet bar to play WOW(I guess the Internet bar doesn't have this game yet. It doesn't matter. I'll give you a backup right now).

Give you a task, remember to give me a letter and tell me what you are now.Write a letter to you in Ten Years Later, arrange him to write to us.In case of he has Alzheimer's disease and forget us, we can leave him a memorial.

Yours

SunWei

PS:My eyes moistened several times during writing this letter.I'm so bad at caring for parents,wife and the growth of children.The tree wants to be still,but the wind is blowing.The son wants to show his respect,but his parents have gone.Don't treasure until you lose.

你好，亲：

我是孙威，是的，我就是你！很高兴你遵守十年之约回到这里！

你已过不惑之年，郭德纲有句话说的好“过了40，就不让霍霍了”，你的人生已经基本定型了，如果没实现财务自由的话，也就别再勉强了，家人才是最重要的。

彤彤已经13岁了，不那么争强好胜了吧，别太在乎她的学习成绩，要着重培养她甘于平凡，别忘了你对她的期望是成为那个为别人鼓掌的人。如果有了老二的话，可别冷漠了彤彤，不然我可就不要二胎了。

爸妈身体还好吧？你这一辈子也算是过了一半了，该静下心来和爸爸说说话了，别说上两句话就吵架，劝他少喝酒，千万把血压控制住，有时间就多陪陪他锻炼锻炼身体，这都是我这些年欠他的，你可得给我还上啊。妈妈现在还喜欢织毛衣么？彤彤已经大了，估计不会喜欢奶奶给她织的毛衣了吧，尽你所能多陪妈妈去逛逛街，买不起看看她也会很高兴的。

老婆的工作还那么忙么？她因为工作太忙在家的时间比较少，你能分担的就分担吧，别再有什么怨言，要不然，你有本事你上啊！

经常联络联络朋友，千万注意身体，少喝酒。不喝酒朋友是不高兴，可喝多了家人不高兴啊，你说让谁高兴更重要？再过个十几年，你能凑一帮老头子去网吧玩魔兽（估计网吧都没这个游戏了吧，没关系，我现在就给你备份上），也算一道靓丽的风景。

给你布置一个任务，记得给我回信，告诉我你现在的情况。再给十年后的你写一封信，安排安排他，别万一将来的咱们老年痴呆了，忘记了咱们，好歹能有个提醒。

敬祝：

阖家幸福、身体健康！

你亲爱的过去

2018年1月9日

注：写这篇文章，我的眼眶湿了好几次。对父母的关怀，对孩子的成长，对妻子的关心，原来做的这么少。