"One step forward and two steps back"

It is what everyone at some point we do, regardless of the reason, at some point that happens.

The reason why I have most seen that is because of the (terrible but perfect) love. We all suffer for love in the moment, the most peculiar reasons:

• You like someone but do not know that you exist.
• That person knows that you like her and she only loves you as a friend.
• Your lover is in another relationship but says he prefers you.
• The relationship is with you but you prefer someone else.
• They got tired of the same thing.

We usually spend our lives looking for that perfect person, that idolization that we have in our minds, something that we believe but that does not exist. While it exists, it is someone with all the imperfections and defects that you can imagine therefore smil times better.

The most common question is how would your ideal partner be? and you begin to enumerate certain (good) traits but at the same time stupid.

Personally I have gone through many disappointments for having that same thought, but I learned something very true:

"After the first love, the real one comes." That which makes you see the prettiest and most real life, which helps you to look for the good side of problems and to see them as motivation. That opens your eyes with respect to what you are and what you can do, who loves you and even if you remember it a thousand times, it shows you instead of just words. That person who makes you take risks and break your fears, who like you made mistakes and pretend to be better for them.

That person who one day will make you feel that movie kiss with which you usually say "Too much intensity".