#1. Find a way to get out of debt. A good place to start is not to make any more debt. Jobs can be OK if you use them correctly!
(Example) When I was 21 I worked for a temp agency. No one wanted to work the weekends at night especially. It was Los Angeles in the 70s if you know what I mean! SO I figured out I could get paid for 40 hrs of work if I worked Friday, Saturday and Sunday night. 3 10 hour shifts
To me that meant I had everyday of the week off to go surfing! And if the temp agency would call me during the week and I felt like working a shift or 2. I would get paid extra! Yes!
During the week there was plenty of opportunities to surf and make money during the day any way i wanted to.
#2. Live for yourself find multiple ways to create abundance in your life.
#3. Eliminate all, I mean all the bullshit relationships from your life.
Develop new and meaningful relationships. I choose to move away from where I had a lot of these relationships and expectations from family and friends. Sometime that is what is the best I don't regret it at all!
#4. Work on understanding yourself your wants your needs. Improve!
#5. Stay focused on your health and well being.