The world doesn't owe us a favor!

in #life5 years ago

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Life is getting more stressful no matter how advanced technology we use. The more we are habituating ourselves to modern life the more we are putting ourselves on workload, peer-pressure, and everything. It's very natural to feel the destruction, lees-inspiration in our everyday lives. There is no way to feel positive, energetic every single time. Getting back to life is also an automatic process. But the problem arises if we can't manage ourselves to get out of our destruction or from our emotional hole.

All these happens coz we think people will do us a favor. They will show us compassion, reward us, support us and everything. When we get the reality that there is actually no one who will take our side when we feel down and off a bit; we feel more destructed.

The first thing we should learn that nobody, not a single person owes us a favor. You may say that your family members or your Mom would be there to support you no matter what. Yeah, they gonna support you but they also will not take the blame for your work. It's only we, who can make us feel better. We have to motivate ourselves, have to be responsible for our work and everything. If the world shows compassion for a minute, it's because they are kind enough but that doesn't mean they are gonna do the same, act the same over and over again on our miss-deed.


Stop playing the blame game!

Accept what is what and work on it. Work on improving yourselves, work on your emotion, work on the relationship. Don't blame anyone, anything for your current situation. It's only you who can not change it, it's only you who can change it. Recognize your mistakes and try to develop your actions. Blaming is like a disease. It will harm your inner-self much.

You may have seen people who blame their fate for their situation. I say, there is no result actually. The world doesn't owe you, you have to achieve on your own guts what you desire, what you want. Nobody will offer their portion to you. Don't take it granted if that happens once.

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